Insomnia Support Group
Insomnia is a symptom, rather than a disease, and is characterized by inadequate quantity or quality of sleep. People with insomnia complain of difficulty falling or staying asleep, which results in significant impairment of daytime functioning. Insomnia is categorized as transient (shorter than one week), short-term (one to three weeks) or chronic (longer than three...
You are definitely not alone. Insomnia is very prevalent. Literally millions of people struggle with it every night. Some struggle for years, even decades.
My first suggestion would be to get a checkup with your doc. You want to either treat or rule out a medical basis, such as apnea, allergies, restless leg syndrome, etc.
The majority of insomnia however is primary, meaning without a true medical root cause. That's why drugs can potentially do more harm than good ... the nonmedical root is still there to cause ongoing problems the drug can't reach. And drugs tend to reinforce the perception that the solution is external and out of your self-control.
The true roots of most primary insomnia are typically some combination of bad sleep habits and excessive worry about the idea of sleep. Stress and anxiety also contribute.
What are you doing to help yourself sleep better?
I am current diagnosed with PTSD,so one of the most obvious effects on my life is the sleeping. Most nights, sleep really late and wake up really early or late and others i can sleep; its a dangerous rollercoaster. It affects you in so many ways. Have you ever tried valerian root? I bought it over a week ago and still have not used it; still a little resistant. It's all natural. I recommend it if you don't mind taking pills.
Don't you ever look in the mirror and then you just look at your face and you're like" damn..."? I know others can probably relate to that. In your case, insomnia seems just like the primary disturbance. Like someone mentioned, is there anything else going on in your life or anything that has happened to cause this insomnia? Think about it.
I will say this, although insomnia has ruined many things for me, I can't say it has ruined my life because I'm only 29 and I'm determined to manage this problem and achieve goals that I set out for. I don't know your age but I totally believe that insomnia has affected your life up until now but you don't have to believe it will continue to ruin your life.
Keep working on finding the root of the insomnia. For me, anxiety and difficulty breathing through my nose contribute to my insomnia. It's a constant battle for me. I'll go days where I average 4 - 5 hours a night and then I'll hit a horrible stretch of insomnia but I'm working to regulate my sleep more. Hang in there. Life presents challenges for everybody in one shape or another. Whether it's cancer, AIDS, or insomnia, many people have a bag of hammers they have to carry. Health problems are a major life challenge. It is hell for now, but it doesn't have to stay that way.
I don't know of this has happened to any of you, but you can go to sleep late and wake up at a decent time but your body and mind is just dragging. It is like a hell on earth. It takes out so much energy and affects you at work, school, home, etc.
I agree with the last response. Health problems may be just one of those hammers we carry, but it is not something that should rule over our lives. whether it stems from anxiety, depression, PTSD, etc, some things will have to be fought.
I was at the Christian Center around my home and today, one of the pastors made a prayer against insomnia and gave a quick testimony about someone who suffered from it for 5 years. That person doesn't have it anymore. Is it any less our faults that as much as we do believe in the power of prayer, does it fall down to our faith?
Not everyone understands what we go through. We don't accept insomnia in our lives. We dont ask for it and neither do we believe any less in the power of God. I refuse to believe that this can go on forever but maybe, just maybe, this is a test for us. Maybe we have to endure this. Maybe it will continue, no matter how hard we hit the nail of insomnia, but is it our faults?
Personally, I believe in the power of prayer. I also believe that God helps those that help themselves. There's no reason the two can't work together.
For insomniacs, I do think it would be a mistake to just leave better sleep up to wishing and hoping. There are definite things beyond prayer you can and should do to help yourself sleep.
By doing so, it will get better.
I totally feel your pain. I have suffered from chronic insomnia for 5 years. Most nights getting only 2-3 hours of broken sleep, to only get out of bed feeling much worse than I did when I went to bed. Each day I have had to turn to the Lord, multiple times, and beg for him to please get me through the day. Noone truly understands how the sleep deprivation steals every piece of your life away from you. HOWEVER, after years of tests, doctors and meds I believe I may have an answer and maybe it will be useful to you. I went to a Choiropractor who studies functional medicine. He said it could be my cortisol levels are spiking at night which was preventing me from sleeping. I did a saliva test that revealed this was true, along with a gluten allergy, hypoglycemia and low progesterone levels. This is a test that medical doctors typically do not acknowledge, and I would have been a bit skeptical too if the program he put me on had not worked. I have been taking supplements for adrenal support for 3 months now and I have gone from sleeping 2 -3 hours of broken sleep TO 5 consecutive hours of sleep at least 2 times a week. Hey, it's progress. Basically- I was in the stage before Adrenal Exhaustion. This caused so many other symptoms that have since disappeared. Praise God! I pray for you that this is helpful! HANG IN THERE AND DO NOT GIVE UP---- There is an answer to what is causing your insomnia!