Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I would like to hear from those who have dealt with infidelity in their marriage and ask if it gets better. When or how long did it take for things to get better? There are times when things seem to get better and I feel hope for our marriage and then feelings of sadness or anger return or I get triggers. Does it ever go away? Is there even hope that a marriage can work after something as big as infidelity? Should I even bother? Sometimes I don't even think I want to try to work things out anymore. It doesn't feel the same. It truly has broken our marriage and now it's just a dark cloud that we don't discuss but we both can feel it there.
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
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Each situation is different, but that doesn't mean you two can't heal. Both people need to be 100% invested in fixing the marriage. Have you two done any counseling, individual and marital? What do you mean when you say it is a dark cloud that you don't discuss.... you should be talking about this a lot, and as much as you need to, to help you feel better and comfortable and confident in his being now faithful.
Also helpful is to journal. Write and write and write about all your feelings, your hurt, your anger, everything. It helps to write it out and get it out of your head.
Try to do things that make you happy, outside of him. Talking with friends and family, doing things that you enjoy doing, hobbies, etc.
It's tough, for sure. I have been there. Like I said, it depends on the details... how quickly you can get past it.