Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I still ask myself everyday Why? What did I do for him to do this to me? Why did he cheat? What happened? What made him do this? How could he be so deceitful? We where "soulmates" I took care of his children like they where my own? How could he do this do me? Why?? Are you that selfish a scumbag? Every freakin day I ask myself the same question?He never said a word to me nothing just one night out of nowhere said i need a divorce.Yeah hinsight is a wonderful thing and he was distant and quick with me but I never saw this coming ever!!!! I dont' understand how i could have been so wrong about him? I will never know the truth . But why do men/women cheat? What happened to for better or worse in sickness and in health does anyone take there vows seriously anymore.
I Have no trust in anyoe aymore. I feel like all men cheat eventually or they get board,tired blha blha blha... Noone works at there marriage anymore. I am so sick of finding out about my not soon enough ex husband to be and his whore on vacation? He has broken my heart. I don't get it!!! :(
I Have no trust in anyoe aymore. I feel like all men cheat eventually or they get board,tired blha blha blha... Noone works at there marriage anymore. I am so sick of finding out about my not soon enough ex husband to be and his whore on vacation? He has broken my heart. I don't get it!!! :(
There are really men out there that can be faithful, Nic. Really. They are out there. Many women cheat and cheat again and make their lifestyle based on this. But faithful men? Yes, they are out there.
Oh I remember those eyes being so swollen from crying. Been there.
You have some great posts here. We've all been there and I hope you can see that you can get thru this. It's possible. And you are not alone.
Somehow, that always helps.
L~
Now, how they arrive at this feeling differs from one to the next.
The exception to above may only exsist, sometimes, in a ONS.
That's the thing I keep thinking about too. How could life as we know it change so totally, so irrevocably.... so fast. Could I have seen the signs sooner that he was so morally bankrupt? How can I prevent myself from being fooled like this in the future? I can drive myself truly around the bend with this kind of thinking. I agree that there's just so much of it you should allow yourself, and then peel your energy away from that toward what you DO want for yourself, along with as much self-love and nurturing as you can summon up. Backed by the caring and understanding that all here have for you! That's got to be the truest path to healing.
"I wish I knew the answer to those questions myself. I sit here and have been under the covers all morning crying asking again, why?. I have to pick up the pieces now with everything and they go on like nothing. I don't think I will ever get over it. Ever. I'm spiralling down and I know it but I cannot get myself together. "
I know how this feels, but please know that I am sending you wishes and hope that you will feel even just a little more energy soon. Can you call a friend? And you WILL get over it. This is just the worst part... which never lasts. And if it is feeling like it won't go away, please call a therapist. They can partner with you to figure out the best way to jump start your healing. This amount of pain SUCKS.