As we are working through couples recovery I'm a little stuck about the part where the CS has to forgive themself.
I do know that it's part of the recovery that the CS has to forgive themself.
When did your CS forgive themself, how many months from D-day? How did that fact make you feel?
I can't help but feel disappointed almost and frustrated as unreasonable as I am. But why should I still daily go through pain and he "already" forgives himself (6 months from d-day). I can't help it but part of me feels he should feel guilty and embarrassed daily untill I'm ready to forgive.
I guess it makes me worried to know he can get past it so "easily" and only get reminded of the guilt if I make him feel guilty/remind him during my downs
I cheated on my husband. I’m not proud of it. He is an amazing guy who trusts me 100 percent. I begged and pleated for more attention from him but he didn’t seem to care. I may have just been making excuses I’m not sure because I love the man with everything I have we have been together almost 10 years with kids. I want to tell him in the worst way. I don’t know how to. The other person...
HI all i found out sundat that my wife is having an affair with our friend. i have asked her to stop and go to counsoling but she says she loves him and wants a divorce or at least a seperation to figure it out im on day 4 im confused i feel lost i moved out im scared can anyone help ?