As we are working through couples recovery I'm a little stuck about the part where the CS has to forgive themself.
I do know that it's part of the recovery that the CS has to forgive themself.
When did your CS forgive themself, how many months from D-day? How did that fact make you feel?
I can't help but feel disappointed almost and frustrated as unreasonable as I am. But why should I still daily go through pain and he "already" forgives himself (6 months from d-day). I can't help it but part of me feels he should feel guilty and embarrassed daily untill I'm ready to forgive.
I guess it makes me worried to know he can get past it so "easily" and only get reminded of the guilt if I make him feel guilty/remind him during my downs
I've been married to my husband for 5 years and we have been together for 13. We had some hiccups at the beginning of our relationship where he was dating someone else and wasn't completely honest about it. Since then there has been no issue of infidelity and I have always trusted him. We have had some issues over the past couple of years, mostly around intimacy. Our communication has suffered...
My life seems so dark, so empty. My ex left me for another man almost two months ago(see early posts for gory details) and I still can't see the light of day. Its been a month of hard NC on my end, not even social media, I have all but cleansed her existence from my apartment. Ive started my relationship inventory, work out regualry and have tried starting meditation. I have learned that my ex...