As we are working through couples recovery I'm a little stuck about the part where the CS has to forgive themself.
I do know that it's part of the recovery that the CS has to forgive themself.
When did your CS forgive themself, how many months from D-day? How did that fact make you feel?
I can't help but feel disappointed almost and frustrated as unreasonable as I am. But why should I still daily go through pain and he "already" forgives himself (6 months from d-day). I can't help it but part of me feels he should feel guilty and embarrassed daily untill I'm ready to forgive.
I guess it makes me worried to know he can get past it so "easily" and only get reminded of the guilt if I make him feel guilty/remind him during my downs
i am new to this so I don't I really do not know where to begin. I have been in a long distance relationship for about 2 years now and within those 2 years we struggled with the long distance we often see each other now and again every 6-8 months or once in a year she always had to come to me but I couldn't go to her cos I get being refused my visa applications back into the country, but I...
My husband and I have been married for 23 years and we have a great relationship. About a year and a half ago we had a party at our lakehouse for our 22 wedding anniversary. My best friend and her husband were there to spend the weekend and the night went late with a lot of drinking mainly by my husband and my friend. At some point in the evening, my husband suggests that we go swimming and...