As we are working through couples recovery I'm a little stuck about the part where the CS has to forgive themself.
I do know that it's part of the recovery that the CS has to forgive themself.
When did your CS forgive themself, how many months from D-day? How did that fact make you feel?
I can't help but feel disappointed almost and frustrated as unreasonable as I am. But why should I still daily go through pain and he "already" forgives himself (6 months from d-day). I can't help it but part of me feels he should feel guilty and embarrassed daily untill I'm ready to forgive.
I guess it makes me worried to know he can get past it so "easily" and only get reminded of the guilt if I make him feel guilty/remind him during my downs
I recently discovered that my husband of almost 4 years had signed up for a dating website. I saw the profile and the information that he populated was very "dating" oriented. I confronted him about it, with a print out of the profile in my hands, and he denied that he was looking for a relationship. He said that he had decided that he would use the website to locate a potential surrogate...
Hi all,So, here's my story. Firstly, I have a history of making bad decisions. And I need some advice on how to move forward without making another one.I've been with my wife since we were at college. So nearly 19 years now. When I was in my early 20s, before we were engaged or married (but obviously in a long term relationship), I had a one night stand. I suffered immensely from guilt, anxiety,...