So I have discovered that I have been currently dealing with a STRANGER for the last 2 years. I would say that the last 2 years WERE A COMPLETE lie and a waste of my precious time and love. BUT I DID GET A BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL little boy out of it. So I guess it's not a COMPLETE WASTE. So the last episode of "AS THE HOE-BAGS CHEATS", I told you guys how bold he was. I've also found out that he has told several people that I BEGGED HIM TO GET ME PREGNANT...REALLY...AT 40 years old? This person is a completely SLIMY SCUMBAG MANIPULATOR!!! He NOT ONLY BEGGED ME TO HAVE HIS CHILD, but first he confiscated all the condoms and threw them in the trash, Then he would SNEAK and empty my contraceptive foam bottle. I got more condoms and he literally went into my bag grabbed them and the scissors, came and sat next to me on the bed one day, and cut them into shreds while I sat and watched. He told me he wanted a baby and we were getting married. I bought a few more bottles of foam but they would either disappear or bottles would be empty when I knew they were newly purchased. So I gave up fighting him on it and I had been wanting to have another child in my previous relationship. So I ended up pregnant. I was so caught up in THINKING he really loved me that I paid no never mind to the fact that I had become distant with family & friends, WHY? Cause HE TOOK UP ALL MY TIME. We went and did EVERYTHING TOGETHER. We had one cellphone between the two of us, we were together constantly. He began becoming jealous of ANY MALE friends of mine. He didn't want any MEN speaking to me. I own a small boutique so I have couples that come in all the time. He would get mad the minute the male would ask a question or say hello. I didn't notice then but NOW I SEE..he was ISOLATING ME FROM EVERYONE.....WHILE HE OBTAINED AND MAINTAINED NEW FRIENDSHIPS WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX. HE IS A FULL BLOWN MANIPULATING NARCISSIST......LOVE IS BLIND AND I DIDN'T SEE IT THEN....NOW THAT I REMOVED HIM FROM MY LIFE....I CAN SEE AND THINK CLEARLY.....