Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I have never caught my boyfriend of 5 years in the act but I have caught him talking to other girls over the phone and texting them. The last time I caught him I was very vocal about it, I made him know I KNEW. This time I found out again and he changed the girls name to show up as one of those 6 number digits that usually send propaganda. I haven't told him I know and I just don't know if I should, I was vocal before and it changed nothing. I shouldn't have been on his phone but I needed to know because there were inconsistencies so I checked. Now I don't know if this will stop him from ever doing this again if I tell him I know, I think he will stop talking to that lady and then talk to another one eventually because most men do that. Whether you find out about it or not that's just what they do. And I love him very much, but for a split second when I found out I just thought to myself "why am I here? With him? I deserve so much more as I receive so much less. I stay because I love him but if I can't even get him to be at least faithful then why do I want him?", I'm 23 and he's 36. He had 3 kids and was married previously, he's on unemployment right now and I work. I barely go out anywhere, he has been going out to "see his friends", it's not a lie because when I call he's there with them I can hear them, but the lady she must work where they hangout. Do I stay quiet and for how much longer? Am I vocal about it? And how do I bring it up?
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
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If you're 23, you've been with him since you were 18 years old. Too young to recognize that he is not a good catch for you. He's 36 years old, divorced, 3 kids, not working..... trust me, you are young, you can do A LOT better than this. And he's cheating on YOU???? Please. He should be so thankful you are even with an old, divorced with 3 kids, unemployed louse like him.
No, don't even tell him what you found. It doesn't matter now, does it? He will just do it again and again. He has pretty much checked out of this relationship, sleeping with other women, and you should do the same - check out. You need to get out there and date new guys. Guys your own age. Guys who don't cheat. Guys who aren't divorced and have 3 kids and no job and have all this baggage.
You are more mature now than when you were 18 years old. You probably want different things for your life now. Maybe you'd rather a guy who hasn't already done the marriage and kids thing. That you want to experience that all new with someone else who hasn't already been married, divorced, has kids, an ex wife.....
I don't mean to sound harsh or anything. It's just that you can do so much better. Don't waste your best years (your 20's) on this cheating old guy!
Unless you realize you want different things. Clean break is good.. it will suck for a while. Make new friends.. enjoy life!