My husband and I have been together for 19 years. I considered him my best friend. We used to talk about everything. There was nothing two of us couldn't tell each other. We have had some issues recently and we separated back in November 2017. Here I am thinking that we are working on our marriage and I find out that he has someone else. I suspected that he had slept with someone else but I didn't say anything because I thought I have to be wrong because he would never do that to me. We had always talked and if I did something to make him unhappy or he felt like I wasn't doing something then he would talk to me about it and I would do the same and we would deal with it. Then he told me to go ahead with the divorce. He kept saying it's not what he wanted but he thought that's what I wanted. I asked him if there was someone else and he told me that he was just talking to someone and that's all it was. They were just friends and he needed someone to talk to and she was going through some things so she understood. The next day we talked again. He tome he wanted to be with me and that he loved me. We started talking about moving into a new place and starting over etc. I found out then that he slept with her. The next day he told me that he needed to be honest and that he was so confused. I told him he needed to make a decision and he chose her. He actually wants a relationship with this woman. I find out today that he was involved with her longer than what he said he was before. He got involved with her back in September. He says that is was hard for him to make a decision but I don't believe that because he was so quick to choose her. He was playing both sides but apparently I wasn't the only one trying to get him to make a decision. He actually said he wanted both of us. OMG!! I couldn't believe that. I told him that I don't share and I either have all or nothing. He told me he loves this woman. Never in a million years did I think that I would ever be here. Today he was talking about how we were going to be a blended family blah blah. I told him that if he thought I was going to be friends with this woman or be nice to her he was fooling himself because to me she will always be the whore that slept with my husband. I said it just like that. I was pregnant with our third child when he started sleeping with her. It makes me angry that he could cheat on me and I can't stand all the lying. It also makes me angry that after 19 years he could walk away so easily.
Hello all. I'm 28, married and a mom of 2 young kids. My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and together 6 in total. I met a guy online in October of 2018 and I flew out to meet him in November of 2018. Crazy, I know. He's also married with a young child. Long story short, we have both found that we have fallen for one another, but being together really isn't a forseeable option....
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