Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Hey. I have been married to my husband for 10 months and together a year in a half. We have a baby together. He works for my aunts company which is roofing. He is a labor person but there is these girls that work in the office and he has to go there periodically throughout the day sometimes. The one girl who's been there a few months after him is a big flirt becuz he has told me my aunt has said it and I've heard from other employees she is because my cousin also works there. The other girls I have no idea how they are. He says she used to try and talk and say hi to him but he would ignore her so she leaves him alone. The only time he talks to her or any of them if it's about work and he has to as if they ask him a question about paperwork or something. I always worry when he is there. And then someone wrote a note on his paycheck about not leaving his check on the table on Fridays and put a smiley face at the end. I got mad and didn't know what to think and said something to him but he got an attitude and said he don't know who it was and he didn't rly care but the fact he got an attitude which may be from me always on his back about then girls. So now every second I feel like he's being distant I'm wondering if he has feelings for someone else or one of them girls even tho he says he don't talk to them. He's always home with me and the baby when he isn't working. Our relationship isn't the best we argue but I am guessing that's how marriages are right? So is it all in my head? If it is how do I deal with it? Advice please
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Look at what my best friend did with my picture!
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We all have 24 hours in a day. How we spend these hours is important. Watching a little bit of a video about how sitting affects us made me aware of how much sitting and laying down I do. Gonna have to work on that.Your turn. Tell me another truth.
I've never cheated nor has my spouse so I can't speak to specific cheating behaviors but if it were me, and he were my husband, I wouldn't assume he was into anyone else, based solely on what you've described here.
It's normal to have some arguments in marriage but I guess how normal depends on what you argue about, how often, what the issues are etc. Have you always been on him about other women even before you were married, or is that something that started after having the baby? I wonder if there some postpartum stuff going on.
Insecurity has killed many relationships. Make sure the problem isn't just in your head and your own BS before you put it all on him.
But based on what you said, sounds like it would be a good idea to do some marriage counseling, and/or read a book like "His Needs, Her Needs" by Willard Hartley, and use that info to develop a closer relationship.
A smiley face is not substantial reason to wig out.
Take a deep breath and work on getting through day by day and see what you can do to make yourself less insecure.