Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
And fairly disabled. My question is do the OW still stalk the wives of the CS? It was fairly common to hear of it when I used to post here seversl years ago. The skank my X cheated on me with stalked me,
If you mean stalking in person, my former AP and his BS both did some of that to me and to my BS. You should look into legal action if it is still happening to you. Even a cease and desist letter might be enough to stop harassment.
Rude? Turn us into the Etiquette Police.
We are here to work through the journey so we stop fucking other people's husbands. And your CS should be right along with me. How would you like it if he was trying to reform and someone was running him off a support board? I have no right to show adversity to any human being reaching out for support or help to genuinely overcome demons and to better themselves in this life. Neither do you.
In doing so, that shows your character.
It wasn't me that fucked your husband, Storm and Sexysub- direct your anger where it belongs.
Infidelity is Infidelity and it effects the CS just as it does the BS. We are here to learn from each other and some of your sheer pain and anger on this particular board has helped me moved forward. I would never want anger I caused my husband to allow him to treat people like some of you do. One thing in CA, we aren't mean to the BS. That speaks for our character too.
So sexysub, why did your OW stalk you?
1) He never mentioned you OR painted you in such a picture that you were crazy, mean, unloving, were separated -like 'roommates' but living in the same house (always my favorite), stopped taking care of yourself OR stopped investing in him that curiosity got the better of her.
2)She's bored and has nothing better to do. Here, you post on healthy sex how your master wants to take your anal virginity and you like to choke while giving deep throat. You definitely are interesting reading on a rainy day.
3) he's a sex addict and she's trying to determine how much your head is really in the sand.
4 (lastly and least probable) for whatever reason she wants your cheating husband, maybe she's a glutton for punishment, and wants to know what she's up against.
Clover is right, if they are genuinely stalking you, like anyone else, report it. And of course it's scary- that's why one calls in authorities to protect us.
I've never stalked the OMs wife. Things they would say and what went in in that hotel room- I actually pity them. And I wanted to believe all the lies my OM said about them. Social media stalking makes them real.
In someways the wife,when the affair is over and the couple stayed together , got the shorter straw.