I am sorry you are going through this. It sucks, it hurts, and you are trying to make sense of it - don't.

Instead get yourself to a divorce lawyer before he does.

He is cheating and leaving because he wants to, not because of anything you have done. Do not blame yourself.

It's sad because you would think a 25 year marriage is a stable one. I can speak from experience and tell you that, no. It could just mean 25 years wasted with the wrong person. IDK

It is pretty unlikely that this relationship with the slut will last. Quickly get your house sold, or get sole ownership of it so you can change the locks when she tires of him.

It was 26 yrs for us. Cheating is devastating no matter how long you have been married.
Don’t wait for him to come to his senses.
Lawyer up.
Contact his HR department to get the correct paperwork. (1/2 of his 401k is yours)
scenario 1: you get divorced.
Scenario 2: he realizes that she bitches that he leaves the toilet seat up too. Or when the trash needs to be taken out.

It’s not much fun when the daily BS gets mixed in... does she have kids at home? That makes it even better.

Protect yourself, disclosure, be cordial, nothing makes them regret a decision to leave that an apparently happy ex...

Yes, she has a 17 year old son. And believe that she is a serial Homewrecker. She is 10 years younger then me so I believe that this is a mid life crisis for him. We have a 22 year old daughter who tries to play neutral. So, I am making her my main concern and getting through this. I keep saying that I am Dory from Finding Nemo. Just keep swimming, just keep swimming. Thank you all for listening

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Lots of us wish we could have a do-over where marriage is concerned. I hope you are well represented and get all of what you deserve financially, after giving your life to this man and to your family. Go live your best life and good luck to you!

This is going to end very poorly for him. He is going to live with a lifetime of regret very soon after she makes his life a living hell and he realizes he burned the only bridge leading back to home.

I would suggest that you prepare yourself for when he comes crawling back to you. It won't be because of love or remorse but of regret and having no one else to turn to.

Don't let him weasel his way back in by treating you as a secondary fallback plan. End things cordially and move on.

And now the Home wrecker keeps putting pictures on Facebook of the two of them together. And then tagging him and people are asking me what is going on. Makes me look embarrassed and also that she is rubbing it in my face.

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I know he is cheating. He told me. But to have her put pictures on Facebook the tramp is just rubbing it in my face. And I believe that she is a serial Home wrecker if there is even such a thing.

You have a choice here. You can just ignore all this FB stuff, delete your account, etc. OR you can out the cheaters and say that this woman is
your husband's mistress. A marriage is for two people, she was in the middle of it so you are dumping him. Put the blame on the cheaters.

Create the life you want for you. Each and every day make them matter less and less.

Put him on Blast... announce on Facebook.. tag him and any mutual friends you have what the situation is.
Example,
Hey Family and Friends... I just want to say how proud I am to be able to say for the past 25 years I have been a faithful spouse. My family was my life. Which brings me such heart break to find my husband involved in an affair. I have been blindsided. Everyone on has rough patches or so I thought. My H @johndoe, decided instead of coming to me to work on his concerns, he is now playing house with someone else. He can be reached at his mistresses home where he will be playing the father figure to her children.

If you knew about this affair please delete me from your friends list as you are no friend of mine.


Or something like that

If only I could do that. He blocked me and I found out that the tramp who tagged him in the picture of the two of them took down her page last night. Guess someone told her. It's just so hard going through this and as I sit here typing this I have tears in my eyes.

You still have mutual family and friends. They need to know too. He will lead an isolated life. He isn’t trustworthy.

Some of them are contacting me to find out what is going on. And they are surprised that he did something like this. The funny thing is the only people who actually liked the picture are all of her backwoods friends (sorry but that is how I feel about her) and not many of our friends. I still believe she put that picture up to rub it in my face because I believe that is the type of person she is. I refer to her as the Home wrecker.

Remember this isn’t one sided... he wrecked your home... she was just a willing participant

That is true but I am finding out more and more things out about her and she did a lot of deceitful things to get him. I know that he could have ignored her so he is a lot to blame but if she never came around this would have never happened. That is why she is the Home Wrecker.