Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I found out two weeks ago that my husband had been having an affair. Ive suspected this for a while now but I got solid proof two weeks ago when she had called me and told me how they have been together for 3 months. He says that he knows that he messed up and that he is going to show me that i can trust him again. we have been married for 23yrs and this is not the first affair that he has had. Im trying to be strong, but this is just devastating. Am I wrong for questioning his feelings for me? Do I keep talking about it and trying to find out what is wrong and why did it happen? I really need some advice, i dont know how to move forward. I get from him its not me, he just made a mistake, how am i supposed to trust this man again. Or should I just give up.
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
it won't be the last time he cheats
he might love you
he loves cheating more
although it hurts to read that, it doesn't make it untrue
It has nothing to do with your qualities or worth however.
It is simply because his narcissistic personality and character would not give him the capacity to love anyone.
He doesn't love the affair partners either but everyone is an object from which he can gain from be it sex, comfort, finances, or narcissistic supply.
It's self centered world he lives in where the value of people are correlated with what they can do for him.
You supply him with comfort, companionship, and stability. Affair partners supply him with sex and ego enhancement etc. for the people in his life.
It is unlikely that he will change or understand what love is.
He makes false promises because he does not want exposure of who he is or to lose the stability you provide him. It has nothing to do with love.
if you stay with him, get regular STD checks. he's not going to stop cheating
if it were me, I'd quietly see a lawyer and end this sham of a marriage
... he will cheat again.