Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
So going through a drawer I found a list of woman's names. Not sure what it was, but correlated a few names as H's ex girlfriend(s). I confronted him over skype about it, of course he was traveling for work, and he came clean with that list as a list of women he's slept with. My name as well as the same name as OT he had an emotional affair with was on the list. He said it was just coincidence and it was me or OT. He continued to say the list was made a few years ago. WTFever!
I distinctly remember watching the show, GUY CODE on MTV with him a few months ago. They discussed how every guy knows his "number". In other words, every guy should know how many women he's slept with in his lifetime. Apparently, my H didn't know his number, so he took the time to think about it and write each woman's name down on paper so he would know his "number"
I distinctly remember watching the show, GUY CODE on MTV with him a few months ago. They discussed how every guy knows his "number". In other words, every guy should know how many women he's slept with in his lifetime. Apparently, my H didn't know his number, so he took the time to think about it and write each woman's name down on paper so he would know his "number"
Not saying it's not Bull$%!^, but just wondering how you're so sure it is you and her.
I had "fun" before I was married. For many good reasons looking back at the "fun" really isn't all that fun.
If a list is needed better to come of the places, days, times whatever that he did it with you.
As for his guy code list you might want to weigh good/bad guy
When AIDS surfaced it seemed prudent to make a list of past partners, in case there was a need to notify any or all of them. I was careful about protection and getting tested to be sure but the only guarantee was abstinence and I was sex addicted.
The list wasn't a point of pride or bragging rights (quite the opposite, it was a source of shame), rather an attempt at some kind of personal responsibility.