Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My W cheated on me again!!! With a guy she calls a F Buddy! She's seen him a total of 5 times and to me that's 5 times too many. She says it's all just sex. When we have sex it's comprised of all these emotions and fixed up feelings. But when she has sex with this F Buddy, it free of everything but aggressive sex! I'm tired. I'm tired of trying to keep this together. Where do I go from here?
Nothing in my morals and beliefs say that this behavior is acceptable. Nowhere is this even a bandaid for things missing in our marriage. I don't want this anymore!!! I am falling down a hole and there is no end in sight.
Tell me this is purgatory for all the sins I've committed? Tell me that I've deserved this for my past wrong doings? WTF. I'm better than this.
Me
Nothing in my morals and beliefs say that this behavior is acceptable. Nowhere is this even a bandaid for things missing in our marriage. I don't want this anymore!!! I am falling down a hole and there is no end in sight.
Tell me this is purgatory for all the sins I've committed? Tell me that I've deserved this for my past wrong doings? WTF. I'm better than this.
Me
deleted_user
Unless this is something you both agreed would be OK she needs to stop. You need to tell her this is unacceptable to you and if she doesn't stop it your marriage is over. This isn't what you signed up for. If she wants to have single sex she should be single.
deleted_user
I am so sorry. What a terrible thing for your wife to say to you. Not only is she carefree about what she is doing I don't think she even realizes how much she is destroying your sense of person and self worth. It is definitely time to show her the door. There is no thinking to be done here, she is making it clear what she thinks about you and your marriage. I feel as though she thinks you will always be there and someone that she can always fall back on. Show her that is not the case. You know you deserve better, please find the strength to do it.
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