Thank you all for your replies. It hurts and helps at the same time. As for Steveng5691 it sounds really bad when you say a 21 yr old dating a 15 yr old. But it didnt really start out that way. He sort of just grew on each other. We both knew it wouldnt be right, but at the same time we were starting to grow feelings for each other. But if I knew I would be going threw this I would have never gave him the time of day. Thank you again its nice to have people that want you to be happy.

Hi Meg,

Please please make a stand for yourself now. I went through this, and I know your love is strong, but he will not change. If he's cheating on you in the prime of your life, that doesn't bode well for him when you are aging at 30, 40, 50. Once children are in the picture, the pain will multiply more than you could ever believe. Yes, it will hurt, for a while. But there ARE better fish out there. Free yourself to a better place. The pain does go away eventually, the only reason you're suffering so much is b/c you haven't met that person who treats you right. That is true love, not this. Hang in there. Cry it out. But it WILL get better!!! Best wishes!!!

Meg,

I know you can't see it now, but this is all part of the learning process about relationships and what works and what doesn't. This is the wrong guy, he thinks he is more important than you are and this dynamic will never change between the two of you. Move on. When you do he will come running, but you run faster. There is something much better for you if you look for it.

I don't think you get over the betrayal of someone you love and trust so much. However, you do go on to love again...and sometimes more than the one you love now. I think the time we invest with someone is precious and isn't just time, but love, effort, dreams of the future. It's frightening to change that when all you've been thinking about is that. I know that people tell you "You're young, don't worry", but if I remember correctly, at your age, I loved most honestly, pure and openly. After my first heartbreak (of many), I put up some walls. But the man who can break through the walls, may be strong enough to stay faithful. Don't make this easy on your current disappointment. I know you love him, but love yourself more and figure our if you can forgive or walk away. Invest in yourself, in your future...with someone who really cares about your feelings and respects you. You don't always get over the betrayal, but you can learn from it and learn to trust that person or someone new eventually. Best of luck!

Hi, I understand how you feel. I can't give you a better advise, because I'm in a same shoe as you in. I can only tell you my experiences and you can do your own judgement.
I met my husband when I'm only sixteen, the second year we went out he cheated on me with one of his co-worker, on the third years he cheated again, this time I though we were done but I love him so much so I decided to give him another chance. On the fourth years I'm pregnant with his child and we got married, everything going good until 5 years later I'm pregnant again with second child, he started to flirt with a girl at work, they see each other everyday and talked on the phone every night I felt so hurt and confront him, he told me they just talked and nothing happen. Luckilly the girl got layoff and they stop seeing each other. Everything went back to normal, until 3 1/2 years ago he do it again. He posted himself on all the dating site and sexually chat with other women on the internet. It have been going on for 2 1/2 years and I finally found out, at that momnent I really want to leave but because I have 2 children they're in the teen stage, I afraid if they find out what their dad done they will be very hurt. He never admitted that he done anything wrong, because they're are just sexually chat but not physically, so he isn't cheated. I feel so sad and hurt, I don't know what to do, I really love him and the children. He beg me to stay and he promissed he will change. I decided to stay and give him a chance again. But it's over a year now I can forget what had happen, I have nightmare all the time and I don't trust people like i use to, I become so negative toward everything. I telling you all this because to think for yourself, now you're still young, you have a long way to go don't put yourself into the sistuation that you cann't get out. I really don't know that people will change. All I know is I didn't get out this time, he will cheat again one day and I will be hurt again. Please think for yourself not for him, do yourself a favour, treat yourseld nicely.

You will love again but try hard not to follow a pattern of choosing the wrong man- when you find someone who treats you well and with respect you will know what love really is. Half the time we hang onto to things through the fear of the unknown. 18 is far too young to waste your life stressing over him- he doesnt deserve you my love- think hard x

if thats your picture then my god you can be with who you want. It is totally exhausting fretting all the time- you might as well keep busy and forget him in time than -keep busy and face the wrath of his cheating evry year of your young life x

Meg; I'll tell you the same thing I've told my daughters over and over again and they still aren't listening.
Don't settle for less than your soulmate, he is out there, you need to be patient, when the time is right he will appear as if by magic. If you are with someone that you know in your heart isn't your true soulmate, you won't be available or even aware when he comes into your life. Listen to your heart, you know what you need to do.
God bless