I did, I talked to the OW face to face. We compared the lies that he told both of us! Hubby has no ideal that we talked and that was 5 yrs ago!

My H wanted me too because she was stalking me. Especially one evening after she threw a 10 page letter through my door, while my kids were home, I started driving to her house and pulled off to the police department. Happy I did or I may be in prison right now.

I confronted the OW in my fuzzy slippers. Drove over to her house, knocked on her door and confronted her with her H standing behind her.

I have no regrets either.

This is totally your choice, but be prepared for the fall out.

L~

I confronted the man that was trying to push further along a physical relationship with my wife after I found out that they were texting a lot. They did have some physical contact, touching, but no sex or oral. I facebooked his wife telling her what was going on. I told him I wanted to meet so he could explain himself. At first he refused, but after bugging his wife with more details he agreed to meet. He met me inside a McDonalds, he got there early, bought a cup of coffee and sat with his back to the restrooms.

Cup of hot coffee in hand I looked at his other hand and he was holding his iphone recording the conversation. Based on that many of the things that I wanted to say were not said. I'm not stupid to get someone to call police on me for threats or anything. I did have some choice words and he just sat there like a coward. It hurts thinking about it, because there was soooo much more I wanted to say but couldn't. But it did feel great to get some stuff off my chest about his integrity, honor and the POS that he was. I'm sure I will run into him again one day, things will be different then.

He was an instructor at my step son's karate place, that was actually a good mentor for some time.

I confronted the OW by email after she sent an email to my H after he had broken off all contact with her. He had a secret gmail account and gave me access to it. He told her he would no longer be checking that account so don't try to contact him. About 1 week later she sent him an email. I found it and asked him if he had seen it. (I could tell it hadn't been read) He said he hadn't seen it and told me to delete it. I forwarded the email to my email acct before deleting it and his gmail account. I forwarded the email to her and had a few comments about how she has hurt my family and she is not the one suffering here as she has made herself out to be in in her email to him. Their affair lasted over a year before I found out. We live in a small community and just about everyone knew except me and my close friends. She has never replied to my email and I never expected her to. I have run into her 2 times in the last 5 months and will probably run into her again this Saturday. I have not confronted her face to face. She walks around like she did nothing wrong...posts all kinds of crap on Facebook about what a Christian she is etc. It's really hard not to call her out but so far I haven't done it.

I'm not sure. I was not married and never have been. The woman herself called me drunk trying to get a ride home from my boyfriend. I called her a dirty name and hung up. She got upset and cried and told him I was all kinds of mean. I don't regret it for an instant and never will. It's not what ended my relationship. As for marriage...hmm, that's a tough one. I would hope the partner would be understanding as long as what you wanted to say to the other person was not going to lead down a bad road, and of course, no violence. Also, not laying all the blame on the extra person when some obviously belongs on the partner. I'm sorry if this is too obvious or has been said already, I'm new.

I sent her a message on FB and told her I wanted her to die. I never heard back from her and i was mortified at my behavior. I do NOT want her to die.

I confronted him and then told his wife in front of him. She then called my wife to confirm.