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Can't stop lying

Soberguy215
Soberguy215

I can not seem to be honest with my significant other about flirting with other women. And when she asks me about if I'm doing anything she needs to know about I constantly lie and tell her no there is nothing she needs to know and she ends up finding out anyway. 


I want to stop lying. I want to rebuild the trust and be with this woman. 


I think I might have really messed things up this time. I hope this site helps and I can learn to trust her with my honesty. Again it might be to late. I'm in Philly. If there is anyone close by that would be great. 

calirn13
calirn13
Apparently he has been given everything his whole life.. there are no entitlements here. You are not entitled to what ever you "feel" is right or wrong. Truth, you can't handle the truth
Linglingcoco
Linglingcoco
Honestly you gotta be honest with yourself. Do you really love her? Is she worth everything to fight for. Ppl confuse love with like and get their prioties messed up. You have to be honest with her and man up. There are no excuses on your actions. Growing up we were taught from what was wrong and what was right. Growing into teenage to adult years we know when to differentiate the2. If you know your doing wrong then why would you do it. If you love her like you say you do prove it to her do everything you can to keep her. No one is going to make the move but you. Your actions affect others.
Lenoire
Lenoire
Why would any honest person want to be with a compulsive liar? Honesty and respect is what separates the civilized from the savage. And, you're asking where in Philadelphia a poster lives, as if you're going to meet up for coffee. Are you for real? This isn't SnapChat.

Liars are lower forms of life; they're cowards, opportunists and selfish entities. To fix your dysfunction would require years of weekly therapy, and I don't think that's something she has time for. She deserves to be with a person who lives in her realm, and not in the realm of make-belief, silly.

Wishing you well.