Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Rest up, take care of yourself. Write in a journal everything that is going through your mind. It helps to get it out of your head and on to paper.
My guess is you're emotionally spent from what's been going on lately. Take time for yourself and do what you want to do, and do some things that are relaxing and make YOU happy. You deserve it!
Wish I could be more of myself - but I am swirling in a whirlwind of things I NEED to do and things I KNOW I HAVE TO DO. I'm trying to find work to help me get out of this situation and assure I have a future...and take care of myself with previously scheduled doctors appointments, but I don't want to go out or be in the public eye right now. Fear is setting in on me of the unknown. Supposedly, the husband is at work (OTR driver) and doesn't call me, YET, I really don't want to talk to him either. My best friend (sister-in-law) recently died, a huge, horrible clash between husband and my daughter doesn't allow me to openly talk to her because she hates him, my sisters (out of state) aren't able to deal with me and my problems due to their health, etc. (2) two other sister in laws are very sadden by knowing what we are going thru but, after all, they are HIS sisters, so I'd rather not say too much about whats happening or what I am considering. I haven't worked since 1997. I receive a supplement income but I can't drop that income for a job I am unsure if I could physically keep up (back problems) to sustain myself. I just don't know what to do, what I can do or what I should do in ANY of these situations. Not only am I IN a DAMN MESS...but I'M A DAMN MESS! I can't even cry. Something happened to me this morning that has NEVER happened. I started to shake, internally and externally. I got control of myself and started to clean the house - but I'm in a battle against this that has come against me. Husband has brought someone into our relationship before either of us have thought thru our own messes. He's being heavily influenced by her, to the point he's ignoring me, therefore, AS USUAL, it's ME who has to deal with this alone and figure it out. And, I've reached my breaking point with HIM & HIS MANY, MANY MESSES.