Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Its been awhile since I had found out about my husband and the other woman ,we have since worked it and moved on ,hes been honest with me ,the one thing I am finding out is that the other womans husband can't seem to let it go ,he keeps calling me ,like he called me today and asked me if I thought they were still talking or meeting up ,I said no ,I check the records and its been months since the last conversation, he doesen't beleive me , he makes these wild accusations that my husband and his wife have "secret cell phones " and are calling each other , or my Husband is calling from the work phone to talk to her , he keeps insisting that its my husband stalking his wife ,its my husband calling her and wont' leaver her alone ... see that's what she is telling him,I told him that shes just trying to save her own skin she got busted and now shes trying to talk her way out of it ,i showed him the phone records ,and there were just as many incoming calls from her as there were out going from my H , he still insists he added them up and my H called more ? granted this is over a 10 month period, I told him 1. she called him back everytime he called her ,and ther were minutes used like 50 minute calls, if she was trying to get rid of his she would not have called him back on a daily basis 2. When they slept together he did not put a gun to her had and make her do it ,s he did it on her own free will , he states that she is telling him my husband calls he constantly , funny there is not a thing on the phone records .. and as for the secret phones , I don't buy into that ,he calls on his way to work wich is an hour , on his lunch hour and on his way home , every day ,I go up there and meet him for lunch , I told her husband that its over, they are no longer in contact, he still believes that its all my husbands fault, that he would not leave her alone, I told him " did it ever occur to you that she is just pissed off that she got busted and my husband dropped her like a ton of bricks, and now she just wants revenge on us because we are working it out and he does not have anything to do with her ,he won't let it go ,has anyone else had to deal with this similar situation,
I do hope you're right though!
Prayers for you!
Best of luck to you ...
This caught my attention though more than anything : You said:
"my Husband tells me that she gives him crap at work".
WHY is he still working with her? Thats opening things up for her to give him more than crap....
Why is he still working with her?
Pay attention.
Whatever, she sounds like one dangerous bitch to me and if you can, get you husband away from her.
to make him not run around on her...
why are they working together and what type of business is it?
do they work in the same building,why would they need secret cell phones...
but remember...i would go get prepaid cell phones too if i was caught just for my affair if i were either of them.....
ask her h to find her secret cell phone and get the number on it....
he is freaking either way....
he actually really thinks something is going on with your h,or he would not be harrassing you to see what you can find out too at your end bec the conversation would hurt too much.
MY EXPERIENCE....CHEATERs always tell half the truth so that if they are ever caught in a lie that they can wiggle out of it.
My h would have to change jobs if I stayed with him....that is the number one place all affairs start so you are really playing russian roulet here this is very possible...
that there is some sort of communication going on between them and there should be zero even at work
so your h making the comment about how she was hard to deal with at work really lets you know that they are still communication,and talking and that is his way to make you feel comfortable if you find out...
i dont know how you do it.....
that is alot to have to accept after a affair in the same work place...
no wonder the other h believes her...
i am sure she is telling him half the truth....i would go from there....