Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Its been awhile since I had found out about my husband and the other woman ,we have since worked it and moved on ,hes been honest with me ,the one thing I am finding out is that the other womans husband can't seem to let it go ,he keeps calling me ,like he called me today and asked me if I thought they were still talking or meeting up ,I said no ,I check the records and its been months since the last conversation, he doesen't beleive me , he makes these wild accusations that my husband and his wife have "secret cell phones " and are calling each other , or my Husband is calling from the work phone to talk to her , he keeps insisting that its my husband stalking his wife ,its my husband calling her and wont' leaver her alone ... see that's what she is telling him,I told him that shes just trying to save her own skin she got busted and now shes trying to talk her way out of it ,i showed him the phone records ,and there were just as many incoming calls from her as there were out going from my H , he still insists he added them up and my H called more ? granted this is over a 10 month period, I told him 1. she called him back everytime he called her ,and ther were minutes used like 50 minute calls, if she was trying to get rid of his she would not have called him back on a daily basis 2. When they slept together he did not put a gun to her had and make her do it ,s he did it on her own free will , he states that she is telling him my husband calls he constantly , funny there is not a thing on the phone records .. and as for the secret phones , I don't buy into that ,he calls on his way to work wich is an hour , on his lunch hour and on his way home , every day ,I go up there and meet him for lunch , I told her husband that its over, they are no longer in contact, he still believes that its all my husbands fault, that he would not leave her alone, I told him " did it ever occur to you that she is just pissed off that she got busted and my husband dropped her like a ton of bricks, and now she just wants revenge on us because we are working it out and he does not have anything to do with her ,he won't let it go ,has anyone else had to deal with this similar situation,
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My H is in transition right now he is starting his own business, he only works there like once a week, as a consultant and to fix the presses when they go down ,the company is ready to go belly up anyway and she is layed off and has been for the last several months ,she's worked there for 20 years and she goes up there to " See friends " I asked him to quit when this all went down ,and he did, Iwas with him when he put in his two weeks months ago, he was asked to stay on as a consultant or "On Call" she was let go or layed off because it would cost the compnay to much money to let my h go, so they cut thier losses and let her go shes permanently layed off. this is not the first time this is the 3rd time shes created this type of problem at the work place ,so she was warned years ago and now she's been let go, Her Husband I know is going through the pain and heartache, I know and i don't blow him off . I do talk to him, but how when he tells me what his wife has been up to all these years how many times he's been down this road, but he "blames" everyone else ,the first thing he told me when I handed him the phone records was "Well now maybe she will start coming home after work when her shift ends " this was back before she got laid off, it was like he could see no fault with her ,like it was everyone else ,he still insists that its my husband, and every other guys she's worked with , chasing after her ,I really feel sorry for him because he really wants to believe that it was not his wife's fault, Yeah my Husband is to blame to, and he brought this into our life ,and we are working really really hard and things are coming together ,I think his wife intended for my Husband to leave his family for her and when he didn't now she is pissed , and now her family knows eveyrone knows, the last confrontations that My H had with her , whe nshe was there cleaning out her locker ,she told him ' Idon't get dumped ,I've never been dumped ,"I don't know with her if its so much as my husband in paticular that she can't get over or the fact that its her ego that got bruised, "likes its some sort of competition or popularity constest. in my mind . shes alwysa been the youngest woman there in the shop, its not a reallg big place ,its more like 25 people work there, there were a few older women but I think she was used to being the center of attention there , even her own husband told me that she never had any women friends , they were always guys , and shes got her own husband snowed, to take the heat off her ,she tells him what he wants to hear . crazy ... I tell you.
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