Thats a good question broken. Early on, I did have some regrets that I did take my h back, just for the simple fact I felt like I let him get away with it. I had to work through those feelings and listen to my support system here. I feel that those feelings are fading away and I did make the right decision to work on the marriage.

No, but I regretted GIVING them a second chance.

No, I have no regrets about getting a divorce. He never gave me reason to believe he would change. From what I learned during the divorce he married me for a reason, a body type and love wasn't in that.

My only regret is that I DID give him another chance. I did give it a try...ten years ago...and now look where it got me...he did it again, and of course it is my fault according to him. So, I have regrets, but not fot those reasons. I lost ten more years of my life. I lost a lot of myself. I am just now getting back to me. I am finally seeing that I am worth more than what he said I was.

Absolutely not. I regretted giving him chance after chance after chance. He just kept cheating. He gave me NO reason to believe in him that wasn't false, fake or a lie.

Even if he wouldn't have cheated again, even if I had reason to believe in him- I would have still left him.

My only regret is not getting out sooner and giving him the opportunity to leave me.

I regret not kicking him to the curb. I regret giving him another chance.

Prayers for all!

I took me a long time to admit that there was no second chance, he wasn't willing to stop seeing the OW but even with that I wanted to try to make it work somehow. After the divorce was final, which I thought would be the end of me, my life slowly got better, bit by bit, so no, no regrets...

I took my H back 8 years ago after a brief A and thought I made the right decision until he did it again this past Nov. Now I am not so sure. He once again is taking the blame, doing everything in his power to support me and rebuild the trust but I am not sure I am strong enough to make it work again. A part of me feels I have lost the last 8 years of my life. I wonder if I would have met someone else, possible had another child, who knows where I could have been today. But I chose to stay and have been hurt again.

No.

No, I don't. I felt, and still feel that when a child or children is involved, you try to give the marriage every opportunity to succeed.

Of course, it takes two people for that to happen.

Hmmmm...I regret much...

I regret being a sucker and believing him. I regret believing his words and not his actions. I regret giving him three kids - the ones he does not make the time for. I regret giving him 20 years of my life. I regret thinking that he would get his head out of his ass eventually - and still hasn't. I regret what I allowed to happen to my life. I regret that I gave him the chance to betray me - twice.

Do I regret not giving him another chance? Not really - that was his second chance.

Have I regretted much since the divorce?

Hell No.

Good question, tho! L~

I regret very much having tried to move past a so-called one-time mistake only to find her whoring went on for 8 years and hiding it even longer.

I think she deserved a second chance for a one-time thing. But what really happened? No. The theft of time and exposure to the disgusting nature of what she did with him, yes I mean "that". Unforgivable.

I deserved the second chance to move on and have a different life than what I experienced.

Not for one second. Like Angel and some of the others said, I regret giving her the second chance I did. She took complete advantage of the fact I gave in so easily the first time, and then used it as one of her convenient excuses for why she did what she did.

However, had I not taken her back, I would have missed out on my youngest three daughters. They made it worthwhile.

In some ways yes.

I should have left her 24 years ago when she cheated the first time.
I didn't.
I should have left her 13 years ago when she cheated the next time.
I didn't.
I should have left her 2.5 years ago when she cheated the third time (that I know about).
I still haven't.....although I have not forgiven or reconciled.

So.......what the fuck is my problem........IDK yet.