Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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onyx11 03/28/2013

This is a quick question or pulse to for those who have stayed how has your journey been.

For those who have left how has that gone as well for you?

Thanks for answering.

Cole50 04/02/2013

Well, most know my story. I won't go into detail on it, after all I've written a book on it, and anyone can go to my journals and read the events in "real time." But the bottom line is I stayed. Could have left if things hadn't gone as well as they did. This coming May 11th will be year two. And thankfully I can report we are doing well and the future looks bright. Her affairs is the hardest thing I've ever gone through, but God has ended up bringing good out of the bad. And for that I am thankful.

pinkpony66 04/02/2013

Years of suspecting A or A's. I gave up asking just to be met with denial. Eventually we seperated, he told me whole sorted truth, we began the rebuild nit started with a few months of therapy and some hyper bonding. Then went into fear of recommitment, seperation, rekindling.

Next was forgiveness move back in,mew hurdles over reacclimating to living under same roof so more counseling with new counselor.

Now nearly 3 years post dday I don't regret the decision but the road was bumpy, curvy, and crazy. Glad the I got my marriage to a better place and have my family intact. My H asked for a second chance, and I'm glad I gave it to him

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