I know how you feel. My friend is the same way with men and tricked her last bf into getting her pregnant. Now she is pregnant with no support. Stupid. ugh

grrrr.....fertile little f**Kers!

These comments make me feel better about being angry about these situations.

My coworker's 20 year old son's girlfriend is Ops pregnant. My coworkers is so excited to be a grandmother she bought them a house so the girlfriend can stay home. I feel like these dumb kids are getting rewarded for being stupid and fertile.

I guess it's all in how you look at it. Sure, these young ladies are able to conceive without blinking an eye. However, don't you think for a second that their lives will be smooth sailing just because they got pregnant "smoothly".

They will have to wing it and thus, make more mistakes and have to learn a lot in a shorter span of time. Their children will look to them to be their hero, but believe me; being a teen or young adult mother makes it very difficult to fill those shoes. If anything, I pray for young mothers because they don't have the slightest d*mn clue what they are getting themselves into. And unfortunately, their offspring will grow up and realize how their young/unprepared parents made a lot of mistakes in raising them. In other words, the children's lives will be affected.

We on the other hand, have wanted to be mothers for a longer period of time. We've had time to plan, examine other parents (especially bad parenting); and have a much better idea of how we will handle parenhood. Therefore, we will be better equipped to handle parenthood.

While I get your frustration, I wouldn't envy these young girls. They have a difficult life ahead of them. If anything, prayers are in order - not only for them, but for the lives of their innocent offspring.

I am must say,when I got one of those comments...I got very upset and I will not compromise...what I 'm about to say.It will be,very disturbing and troublesome for others.

When you don't know your place...I will gladly show you.

Tip to the wise...when you can't relate ....you should not post to bb1234.

I had to delete a comment on my posting,,,, that just set me off....I just don't need someone ,tocomment tell me to pray and not envy ...and all that jazz....I am a human being and my title..says Unbelievable,needed to vent.
It's support group...if a person ..can not relate or disagrees with another member comments ,then they shouldn't reply to their posting.
Think before ,you write because there's someone on the other end, that will read or come cross it,my account is public and I intend on keep ,it that way.
I already feel trapped like, I'm in a bad sitcom.....to come to my support group and have to get upset....freaking ...unreal!

It's so frustrating when people like that so easily have babies and we have to struggle. I have a neighbor down the street that is 16 and just had a baby it's hard to see.

I 'm with you...I know exactly ,what you mean!

I feel ya on this one.
There is a book out there called "Every drunken cheer leader why not me." I read it when my IF first started, talks about all these emotions that we have which are 100% normal.

I have green eyed envy for every preggo out there. I avoid them like the plague.

And hearing or seeing people who are not prepared to have children, are bad parents, or abuse their kids, drives me nuts.

My dad recently told me about my stepbrother's wife (two babies under 3 years old). She says to the daughter, "Get outta my face I am tired of looking at you." Can you imagine! To a three year old. I wouldn't even say that to anyone let alone a baby. Crazy. Just crazy.

I'm so sorry! I know exactly how you feel. I just found out one of my co-workers is 3 months pregnant, but is divorced two weeks, and is barely dating her bf.

I get to look at her fat pregnant belly for the next few months.

Here's the kicker: I'm leaving my job in January and she's due right before I leave. It's like nature's way of giving me the finger.

yeah it's frustrating. Just this week I found out that my 17 year old cousin is pregnant .Mind you this is her second ,the first she left at home alone in September 2011 at 2 months old.WTF. My sis is raising the 1st one.
I actually was devoid of feelings when I heard cuz it was so upsetting.
I feel u

bb1234, vent when you need to, that's what this support group is supposed to be about. Women supporting women any way we need support.

Imagine teaching a bunch of high school girls every year and at least 2-3 get preg a year. Argh!