Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.
For the first time today I felt pretty great.I was told that I was gaining.... back my figure .What a relief, rather than hearing....wow you big,like a house.
It shows me,that fibroid clear is working. Because of my last pregnancy,the fibriods had gotten larger.it was either the fibriods or my baby....in the end....fibriods took up so much place ..that there was no room for my baby to grow.
Today an ex-co worker asked me.....how's the baby.....bare in mind folks
(I suffered a miscarriage a few months ago)....I said:excuse me,don't you remember what happened).She started to apologize and said sorry for your lost....
Wow people can be so forgetful and insensitive sometimes.
I 'm not trying to forget about what happen but I am trying to forgive and believe in myself .While hoping for the possibilities ,that the next time I try...I can be more prepared for anything :The good,the bad And the in between.
It shows me,that fibroid clear is working. Because of my last pregnancy,the fibriods had gotten larger.it was either the fibriods or my baby....in the end....fibriods took up so much place ..that there was no room for my baby to grow.
Today an ex-co worker asked me.....how's the baby.....bare in mind folks
(I suffered a miscarriage a few months ago)....I said:excuse me,don't you remember what happened).She started to apologize and said sorry for your lost....
Wow people can be so forgetful and insensitive sometimes.
I 'm not trying to forget about what happen but I am trying to forgive and believe in myself .While hoping for the possibilities ,that the next time I try...I can be more prepared for anything :The good,the bad And the in between.
Best wishes to you and your family:)
I am one who will out right tell someone- No, i don't have kids. and when they say something stupid like 'well you better get on that" or "do you want kids?" then I tell them that we are medically unable to have children. I always love the follow up statements of "adopt" or "gods plan" and I can then embarrass them into shutting up by going in to our disbelief of their God and the financial/emotional issues behind adoption. It is my hope to get them to realize they need to THINK before saying these kinds of things to people. I used to be one who would just say we'll see and walk away but i know how much that HURT me and how much i AGONIZED over that conversation the rest of that day or more...and i want to do whatever i can to alleviate that stress for someone else. You NEVER know what others are going through and I NEVER ask someone when they are having kids etc. If I can make others more sensitive to that, but have to embarrass them a little to do it, so be it. They used to embarrass me by asking so now i think turnabout is fair play.
hope that doesn't sound too mean of a strategy but its all that i have found that works for me. its a way to cope and deal.
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What makes even worst,she told me in the past,when i went to purchase strength marks cream ,that she herself, had two stillbirths.Now when I see her ,she has 2 little boys so it's not like she have not be through something like this. I just think,she should of known better and she shouldn't have made a comment like that!
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I am so sorry that you have to deal with infertility and I do hope that you will have victorious happy ending.
Reply 10: The same thing I would of said ....foot in the mouth disorder...to many people are caughting it.