Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.
Hi iam Carrie an iam 23 married n loving likfe. A yr ago me n hubby started trying to have a baby of our own. Well 9 weeks ago we found out we coudnlt have babies bc of both of us. Well since then 2 of my close girlriends have found out they are pregnant an werent even trying. An worst parti found out on FACEBOOK. I was so heart broken bc i would of loved for them to tell me directly. But whatever! Me n hubby have started adoption process. And its such a long process. Iam so heart broken bc i found out again today another one of my girlfriends is pregnant with her second! I called hubby n sobbed to him. I am so heart broken an scared ill never feel the love of a newborn in my arms an i dont want to miss out on the butterflys in my bellly. But i feel like i guess hopeless.... Iam feel so alone. My siblings each have 2 kids so they dont know what iam going through. I know this is long but i had to rant! Iam stoilling sobbing at my desk now here at work! I feel like i just needed a place to let it all out! thanks for hearing me! an i know bc you all are going through the same thing as me so iam sure yall know how i feel. I ahve tryed all the medications an everything an nothing! iam so discouraged! I just need a hug or a stiff drink!
cwhit
rayt1403 i totally understand.. Me hubby always said no matter wait if we couldhave kids we wouldlike to adopt atleastone! Well god had this planned out al along. I hate this plan but i guess i have to accept it. This adoptionprocess is long n timely n costly. But we know in the end that it will all be worth it! An in the process we are trying to get healthy n buy a better house so i sure do have enough to keep me occupied for awhile!
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Yeah I agree this isn't the way I wanted everything to happen, but it is what it is. My husband and I were talking this weekend and we are just tryiing to remember there is a prize at the end of all this. It will all be worth it in the end no matter how we get there.
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dont give up hope! having pcos myself its not impossible. ive read book after book about infertility and have talked to my dr. there is several ways to retrieve sperm if men have no sperm count and u should deff. look into it. and if the clomid didn't work there are other meds that will work. my husband and i have agreed that we would rather start an adoption rather than gamble with the chance of IVF for cost reasons. educating urself is ur best bet at this time.
cwhit
kricci thanks an i havent given up hope... i am just tired of trying my body n mind are exhausted.... thank go for mini vacas
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Have you considered donor embryos? no eggs or sperm of your own, you just adopt another couples leftover embryos that would otherwise stay frozen indefinately or destroyed.
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