Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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SweetPea19 06/10/2008

So my hsg level went UP again! Ughhhh...someone just shoot me. This misery never seems to end! So now they say they say it's in my tubes! And I have to go get that stupid shot tomorrow morning! I'm so scared to get it because I know it's going to make me feel even worse then I do already physically. AND then to have contractions when the fetus comes out scares me too!

AND THEN my doctor tells me I have to wait for 3 months to TTC again!!! UGhhh...Seriously is this just a sign that I shouldn't TTC? I am totally serious in thinking this. I just can't catch a break with this stuff and I've had a really bad few years with the passing of my family members and my stupid car accident and all! I'm just really fed up, sad, confused, and don't understand why bad things keep happening to me!

Anyway...just wanted to give you all an update on my MISERABLE life!

kimbochi 06/10/2008

I am so sorry you have to go through all of this... I am here if you need to vent. Life is so challenging sometimes!

deleted_user 06/10/2008

I'm so sorry, but don't give up. Never stop aiming for your dreams. Nothing worthwhile ever comes all that easily. I know that's so hard to understand right now, we've all been there. Try to take things one step at a time and know that we are all here for you. Wishing you rest and a peaceful heart.

deleted_user 06/10/2008

I am so freaking sorry. I wish I could make this go away for you. It is so hard to want something to have stayed in your body and now you just want it out to move on. At least thats how it was for me.

Way too early for you to make that decision my dear. You are going through so much and you don't feel well. Just try to be good to yourself and Know that we all love you.

Cyncognito 06/10/2008

i'm so sorry for all that you are going through. this is unfair, and you have every right to be angry, upset, resigned to give up. just wait till this is all over before making any major decisions. you're in my thoughts and prayers . . .

deleted_user 06/10/2008

Oh SweetPea, i am so sorry. That does suck! Just when you want to put it all behind you. I am so sorry that you are going through this. I hope that the shot is not as bad as you think it will be and this can finally be over for you. I can totally understand that giving up feeling. I think I would begin feeling that way as well. Big HUGS!!

deleted_user 06/10/2008

I am so sorry. I wish you didn't have to go through this. ((HUGS))

deleted_user 06/10/2008

I'm so so sorry... I know you feel like you just want this all to be over, but don't give up. When you have your precious baby in your arms this will all seem like a nightmare you had a long time ago. I will pray for peace for your heart and soul. Big hugs for you... if you need anything at all, feel free to message me.

deleted_user 06/10/2008

In Feb I had surgery and also had to wait 3 months to TTC. It was long but I just kept telling myself that I was "getting my uterus ultra healthy." It helped. I wish you the best.

lina2008 06/10/2008

I'm so sorry you are having to go through all this... Keep your chin up and don't loose hope

deleted_user 06/10/2008

i am so sorry you have to go through this i wished there was something I could say to take the pain you will be in my prayers

deleted_user 06/11/2008

Honey I'm so sorry this is happening. Have they done an ultra sound to try to see your tubes? Just to make sure.

deleted_user 06/11/2008

I am so sorry!!!! Please try to stay positive. I know it's easier said then done. I will say my prayers for you everyday! Hang in there.
oxoxo,
Lyd

deleted_user 06/11/2008

I am so sorry you are going through such a rough time. X

deleted_user 06/11/2008

I am so sorry you are going through all of this. I do not believe for one minute that it is a sign you should not be TTC. You have a harder road then most to get there. Do not give up! (well, if you really feel you don't want to try any more then you can, but in my heart I do not feel you are really at that point). You will get through this and we will all be there to help you.

I really wish I had the answer about the bad things. I always wondered the same thing about myself. I think God has a great plan for us.
I know it makes us stronger and able to offer more to others who are also struggling or in pain. I also know that it still does not make it hurt less to go through all of this. But you will get through it, I promise!

deleted_user 06/11/2008

Awww hon, everything will be okay. We all go through those times where it is more of a struggle than anything else. Don't give up, stay positive, we will get the baby we so desire. Take care of yourself!!

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