Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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kinkajou 04/25/2013

There isn't much that is worse than the 2ww. I think today I found something. Getting your period before the wait is even up. I just wanted to cry and cuss and scream and throw shit. All at the same time. They were just so sure that this was going to be it. I think I was more optimistic because I did get pregnant last time. Given it didn't last long but I still got that positive test. This time I didn't even make it through the first two weeks. ugh....i am just so so so frustrated. And hurt. I just hurt so bad. I hurt for me and my friends that are going through this and all of you lovely ladies. It just hurts so bad some days. Thanks for listening.

Nellysgirl 04/25/2013

I'm so sorry :-( That is an awful feeling. What i think is the best is if AF shows up right after a BFN so you don't have to wait around. It's just as bad too if you got a BFN, and now you're just waiting around for AF so you can start a new cycle or just get over the stress of the last one. Hugs and hope you feel a little better soon

deleted_user 04/25/2013

Ugh so sorry for your struggles. I feel your pain! I have never made it through the 2ww to go for my pregnancy test, AF always shows up 1 or 2 days beforehand. Give yourself time to grieve, go through all your emotions and throw shit if you feel like it! ;) Hoping for the best for you!!

deleted_user 04/25/2013

Wait a minute, if I am reading this right, u THINK AF Showed up right? Did you actually go in for the test or take the test? Maybe it's just spotting.........??

georgiakeen2127 04/25/2013

I had a BFN today. For unexplained reasons the embryo did not implant. My doctor is even baffled... I understand your pain let it out. I got home and screamed as loud and hard as I could. It felt amazing. Sending you prayers and hugs!

deleted_user 04/25/2013

I had the same thing happen last month! 10 days into the 2ww, it was horrible. I was so sad for a while, but now I am focusing on this cycle. I am so sorry this happened to you. Good luck next month.

Orriginal 04/25/2013

Uh this whole IF thing just makes me sick...I am sorry after all that you got AF. Like the other said- let it out- scream, cry, throw something...

HopefullyWaiting 04/26/2013

I'm so sorry. I will never understand why we have to go through this. I hope you feel better soon and get your time soon!

polydoly13 04/26/2013

For me it's the opposite, my cycle used to be 25 days and then one month it was 26, and OMG I thought that was the month, NOT. Then it was 27 and finally one month it was 29. Every month it's like this huge cruel joke, that it gets a little later and a little later, just enough to give that spark of hope.

I'm not dismissing your hurt cuz even when I get it, know I'm gonna get it, I still want to throw shit and cuss and scream. It all hurts and it all sucks and I'm so sorry that every time you turn around there is just another punch in the gut you have to endure.

deleted_user 04/26/2013

My cycles have been shortening, so I know exactly what you mean...

... but you should test anyway: with both my mom's pregnancies, she got her first three periods!

deleted_user 04/26/2013

I am sorry to hear Af showed up early :(( I know exactly how you feel, my cycles can be very irregular and it sucks thinking this might be it just to be let down. I know there isn't much to say to make it better, but I wish you good luck on this cycle :))

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