Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.
My beta is tomorrow and I am sooo scared! This is my second IVF cycle and I am terrified of hearing another BFN. I don't feel anything at all other than a few minor cramps now and then, as if AF was coming (this is why I'm so scared). I am so anxious and nervous and scared, DH keeps telling me to try and relax but it's hard. Have any of you gotten a BFP after not really feeling anything at all?
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Good luck! I'm not even going to tell you to relax because I know you won't be able to until you get your results. Just hang in there.
KaybeyBaby
All I know is that you can attribute all your systems, or lack of symptoms, both to pregnancy and non-pregnancy. So you just have to hold out. You'll be okay. But God, I know today and tomorrow will be IMPOSSIBLE. Remember, we'll be here to celebrate with you tomorrow!
KaybeyBaby
I mean "symptoms, or lack of symptoms" (duh).
deleted_user
Good luck!! I had a beta today but its to make sure I'm not pregnant so I can start taking my tamoxafen. I got my 2nd IUI booked. It actually fell on dh's days off so we can go through with it.
deleted_user
I wish you a BFP. I did my first IVF this month and the day of my beta all I felt was sore breasts and period like pains. I told my husband that I didn't feel pregnant and he told me I was too negative. It ended up being a BFP. There is hope.
deleted_user
Good luck! The first time I got pg (though later m/c but that's beside the point!) I could've sworn AF was coming - I had cramps and was miserable. I actually was getting ready to start clomid, and my doc's office always does blood work to make sure you are NOT pg - well imagine my surprise when I got the call that I had a positive beta! SO - cramps are not always a bad thing! Good luck!
scubagal
Good luck with the beta Sweetie! After my IVF I had no symptoms of pregnancy, and felt cramping as though AF would be there any second. By the day of my beta I had already accepted the fact that it was a BFN - BUT I was wrong! I'm now 19 weeks with twins! Hang in there!
deleted_user
First of all let me say good luck. I am crossing my fingers for your BFP. I had IVF and am currently 19w4d and never had a single different sign or feeling. In fact, even after I got my BFP, I still hardly had any symptoms. Not a lick of morning sickness either. The only thing I suffered from was terrible fatigue the first trimester. So no symptoms doesn't alway mean somthing bad. Can't wait to hear your great news!
deleted_user
good luck think BABY!
JmeP
Thank you all very much...now I'm just waiting for the call!
deleted_user
Good luck tomorrow!!!!
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