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apologies if this is TMI but I just don't get it, what is going through his head?!!!
Let me explain
So there we are getting warmed up, my Husband is teasing me and touching meall good, then things progress, he goes down on me for quite a while, enters me.
then immediately pulls out abruptly saying ' oh yeh I forgot you wanted to go and do something today didn't you, don't have time for this then eh.' walks off and gets in the shower.
I was shocked, speechless, let alone gasping for breath!
What the?!!!
Please help me here, what makes a guy do that!!!?
I felt so rejected.
I had got tickets to go and see a show for later that day, for me and my husband, wasn't sure he wanted to go but he said he would. Usually he doesn't ike to be 'told' what to do. It usually has to be him who does all the planning, or at the last minute he will cancel or make us really late..am I reading too much into this?!
Let me explain
So there we are getting warmed up, my Husband is teasing me and touching meall good, then things progress, he goes down on me for quite a while, enters me.
then immediately pulls out abruptly saying ' oh yeh I forgot you wanted to go and do something today didn't you, don't have time for this then eh.' walks off and gets in the shower.
I was shocked, speechless, let alone gasping for breath!
What the?!!!
Please help me here, what makes a guy do that!!!?
I felt so rejected.
I had got tickets to go and see a show for later that day, for me and my husband, wasn't sure he wanted to go but he said he would. Usually he doesn't ike to be 'told' what to do. It usually has to be him who does all the planning, or at the last minute he will cancel or make us really late..am I reading too much into this?!
I am so sorry he is acting this way and treating you so horrible.
I am so sorry he is acting this way and treating you so horrible. "
yup - it was a whirlwind romance! THis guy swept me off my feet big time!
Reminds me of the saying - if it seems too good to be true, it probably is!
Our sex life is a massive part of our relationship, important for both of us. We make love every morning. Its good. He never finishes inside me however - preferring 'President Clinton' type sex to finish. We are creative and try new things but he needs a more hands on approach!!!
This is why the jumping off thing really hurts.
And yes Daisygirl, I can see where you are coming from and I used to believe that too bit I am getting more and more used to the subtle little games he plays and I can't see this so well, which is why I posted for feedback. Im losing my clarity on this.
He will often try and convince me I haven't said something when I know I have. Its crazy making. I now have a notebook where I write things down so he can't play that game anymore.
I know this isn't healthy but I feel trapped.but thats for another forum!
siiigh!
SO i just ry and explain how these things make me feel in the hope he will not want to make me feel like that. I do the same for good things too!
How do you spend all day together? Just wondering?
We run it in our home-office.
He owns / runs a swimming school - has done for 21 years now., since he was sacked from the Police!
somedays I never leave the house!
I am also an aspiring artist and would love to run my own art school - Im working on this more!
thanks Daisy!
Take some art classes. Take some time for you. It is so important to have time for yourself. It is not healthy to be with someone all the time even a Husband, Hugs to you!