I would say that u just havent found someone who knows how to give a bj. My man went from not wanting them when we 1st got together. B/c he was in the same position as u. To now asking for them regularly b/c he enjoys them that much.

Blowing can be very hot...for the giver and receiver. In my world it can be the whole act or part of the warm up.
But yeah...I have been with people who are clueless on how to do it. You cant even count on another man always knowing what to do...which is weird I know. Then its just like...please stop. Moving on...

lisa i mean by doing notihng... you have very little ability to know what to expect.. when tis your own hand... its not exactly as mcuh fun as from a third party obviously. i try to reserve hard ons for sex but every once in a while this is just awesome. when im wtih a girl i deff do not masturbate very often at all. masturbation is deff not on the same field as oral sex! masrturbation is a single mans version of sex.

"lisa i mean by doing notihng... you have very little ability to know what to expect.. when tis your own hand... its not exactly as mcuh fun as from a third party obviously. i try to reserve hard ons for sex but every once in a while this is just awesome. when im wtih a girl i deff do not masturbate very often at all. masturbation is deff not on the same field as oral sex! masturbation is a single mans version of sex."

I agree masturbation is a poor second and basically for when you cannot be with another person (or persons). It is kind of like drinking Decaffeinated Diet Cola. The taste is there but it's just not like the real thing.

I'm a fully functional bi and for a long time I enjoyed bj's from men but when I was with a woman I saw them only as foreplay. I am in the second standard deviation on penis size and my first few girlfriends said it was uncomfortable. THEN my current love (all girl!) showed me what a bj could be! Not just mouth but tongue and hands and lots of wet and licking balls and all and WOW! Plus she WANTS me to come in her mouth. Most women would say before starting that I wasn't to do that! So I guess what makes a blow job great is the enthusiasm of the blower!

Second standard deviation on penis size? Never heard of that...

Hi Brian,

I live so much in the world of statistics that I forget how to talk to normal people.

If the average penis length is 5" and the range is from 1/2" to 12" then 67% of men will have a penis between 3 and 7 inches (1 Standard Deviation) and 97% will have a penis between 1" and 10". So a penis between 7" and 10" is said to fall in the second standard deviation. A penis of 1 to 3" also falls into the Second Standard deviation. Guess which side of the curve I'm on?

99.993% will have a penis between 1/2" and 12". That leaves .007% with a larger or smaller organ (7 men per 100 Million!) Which means that there are about 3 guys in the US with a cock bigger than 12" of smaller than 1/2". I do not know who they are though.......

I would have to agree with lisa, you know when your man is enjoying what your doing for him and makes it very pleasing. If the person you are makeing love to just laid there never made a groan, a sigh of pleasure would that be a good lay for any man or woman. It is amazing that comunication is in everything we do. Happy hunting and I hope one day you find the right girl to give you a good blow job.

CBG, that sounds french to me! Is anyone esle lost in what was said?

your right brandy,,, I shall try to translate his post to my best potential. :)
It come down to it is a penis,,,we either lick it suck it or just fuck it. It being that it is a penis of unkown size but still a peinis.

LOL. he he he he he

i dont get what the big deal is i hate giving them.

I hate big breasts too... they remind me of a cow's milking teats. ewwww.

I've had guys who thought they hate blowjobs, but love it when a girl has the right technique.....

Otherwise, it's completely cool if you dont like it. Life would get boring if we all like the same things.

I have a few friends who only love large women.... each to their own. Attraction is a perosnal choice and something to be celebrated.

wow lebe I realy like your statement

thats a new oine on me...

Its all prefrence. I used to say the same thing about guys going down on me... but I found my boyfriend and not only does it do it well, im comfortable. Its to each there own, if its not for you, then its not for you. Maybe you need a conection with someone before you enjoy it, maybe you just dont enjoy it... lol. its not really that big a deal...