If you need an explaination, then they aren't doing it right....

I've known one or two other guys who aren't all that keen, maybe it's just not your thing.

hmmmm you are not into receiving a blow job? wdf is wrong wit chu? most men i run accross love a blowjob, and yet you don't like receiving one. like jj said they are not doing it right.

thers a huge difference between a bj and jerking ioff... mainly youre not doing a damn thing and if its done right tis just fucken awesome...

I guess none of the ladies that I have been with have done it right then. If I have a choice between sucking and fucking, fucking wins every time. I love giving oral but, it's not that I do not like receiving it, yeah it feels good, but nowhere near what the real thing feels like.

For me the sexiest part of a woman is the area between the navel and the upper thighs, back and mostly front. Not the mouth. What made me ask the question was I was wandering the world wide web and came across a movie on an adult site and it was like a whole bunch of people and they were all giving Blow jobs, very few were actually fucking. That got me to thinking about past stuff. I have had quite a few women offer to give me a blow job, even had a couple of girls in a car pull up next to me and one leaned out the window and asked if I wanted a blow job for 50 bucks (I think the guy in the car behind me took the offer because he and the girls turned off into a parking lot up the road).

I don't mind some sucking as part of the foreplay but to have only a BJ till I shoot my wad is not my thing. If I am going to have sex, make love, or whatever you want to call it, then I want actual insertion in a vagina not a mouth.

Chris if a guy just layed there like a sack of potatos and didn't do a damn thing... I wouldn't enjoy it very much. Truthfully I would probably want to stop trying to please him. I get so much pleasure if I see that he is enjoying it by his moaning, the changes in his breathing, squirming, making eye contact, talking to me, playing with my hair, rubbing my face and really getting into it. That is what really helps to get me going.

My ex used to dislike BJs because he said they were annoying, the girl would move too fast and not do things to him that really felt good. I have always loved giving head so was determined to suck him off on occasion. It took a lot of time, patience, and being extremely willing to learn what worked for him, but eventually he loved getting blow jobs from me. I think if a lady tries to learn by watching the girls in porn movies give head, they are getting the wrong idea! I don't have a cock, but I can tell they are not doing it right and if it was me, I would be annoyed! No wonder those guys can last so long, they aren't getting off!

If God was a woman, she would have made cum taste like chocolate.. roflmao

Apparently cancers of the throat and mouth are on the increase, partly due to men carrying the HPV virus (same one that causes cervical cancer.)

So it might be worth considering tests before *any* kind of unprotected sex, whether oral or 'normal' sex.

Hmmmm I dont think that its that wierd. Personally I love going down on a guy. But only in the sense that its foreplay for sex and not the sole act for the evening. I also dont like guys going down on me. It can be nice just for a second for like a tease but I just cant seem to acheive much outside of bottled impatience after a few minutes. All in all Oral (either way) can be a builder but not the climax for me. I guess I just need the sex.

The big deal is it makes you feel like a king when a woman worships your cock in this way. Thank your lucky stars you're getting them! You know how many guys would KILL to be in your position?

My guy never used to like bj's either. Then he met me. I can't even tell you how many times he has said that i am the first woman he's been with that actually likes giving head. You can tell when someone is doing it as a "chore" and when someone really enjoys pleasuring their guy. If the girls who have given you bj's have been taking lessons from porn stars than they ARE NOT doing it right! When you end up getting a good blow job, you will know the difference!

LOL Yeah I bet an expert might make it different. For me, I am all about that lovely vulva and that is where I focus my attention. I agree with oral by both parties as foreplay though.

My husband says it's a totally different sensation and stimulates area's that sex can't. He loves the attention just for him. I know I enjoy the attention when I get oral.

I can't tell you why, but the ending for me is totally different. Regular sex, it's certainly pleasureable to cum, but a BJ, geez, sometimes I scream. Yeah, like women do sometimes.