Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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Using Sex

koolman
koolman
as a tool to get love. This seems to be what women do. And it seems men use a woman's love as a tool to get sex. Can we possibly reach mutual understanding???
deleted_user
deleted_user
I did my research right here on links listed in DS via Prosate Cancer group. I am glad tht just becasue you think it hasn't happened to you it can't. Good luck with that.

I'm sorry I areally to busy to find them again, I spent alot of time trying to validate on the internet what I was told by others before me.

If you think I owe you the information, I don't. If you wantto invalidate it , fine. It's your journey not mine.
deleted_user
deleted_user
The American Cancer Society was not on eof my sources. They said nothing about it. There is alot they say nothing about. Doesn't mean the issue doesn't exist.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Okay.
deleted_user
deleted_user
okay so your too busy to list the source of your propaganda but not too busy to keep posting in every thread here with your agenda......
deleted_user
deleted_user
Kool: to address your question, both men and women are guilty of this. Honestly communication of needs and wants needs to be laid out first and foremost..perhaps that would help in the mutual understand of what each other is needing and wanting from the situation/relationship!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Due to health reason I have been without for 7 years. In the last year I have recovered greatly and started dating but wasn't sure I was in to it yet. So frustrated with lack of sex (vibrator is getting old) that a first date I had a while ago I made up my mind on way there to just see about safe sex with the guy. Got to restaurant and within a few minutes I realized I liked this guy...so couldn't go through with the using.