you just descibed me to a Tee kool.

You call the shot in your sex life huh bblu? Sometimes it easier to just wait for her to be in the mood.(It's cheaper}Just grab a video or a mag. and disappear, you know where I'm going with this. I can't cyber I made a promiss so......

I meant the thread summed me up.

sex is a tool to get love, love is a tool to get sex.

ok I see. got ya!

Well I certainly don't need 'love' just to have sex, but attraction aside I do need some standard of courtesy and of course honesty - not sure why that seems to be so difficult for a lot of men (???)

Not difficult Phenix if you for single men but there are those that seek outside there relationships and those are the assholes that fuck it up for the good guys. Because they are the outgoing ones and interesting ones. While the good guys go unnoticed!

I've never had sex with someone for love, but I've never had sex with someone that I don't have SOME type of connection with, either as close friends or some attraction physically. But I do agree with koolman that some women use it for that reason and usually end up with the guys who are looking to prey on women who want love out of sex. Maybe "prey" isn't the best word, but I hope that you get the idea.

After being a huge tramp in my late teen years, I can tell you women who want to use sex to find love, that you should definitely fall in love before the sex if you want to make sure it's right. The feeling will be so much more stronger and is way worth it.

For the women who don't want to find love from the sex.. Go get em! Take that man or woman and GET SOME! tehehehe

Well I'm not sure I buy that 'good guys finish last' reasoning, but that's probably a subject for another thread.
I just get pissed off with guys who think that being obnoxious is somehow going to help them get into my knickers - or what's almost worse, when they think they have trot out all the 'romance' bs just to get a result. You don't have to discuss quantum physics with me all evening, just don't insult my intelligence either!

Yes Phoenix, if the kid has cancer in the reporoductive system it is possible.

Genetic codes are records of predacessors past behavior. This is highly validated scientific theory.

Now once again, over sexual activity in men and woman increases hormone activity that leads to cancer of the reporductive system. That is highly supported medical evidence. So, if you think i'm wrong, tell them not me. I don't agree with EVERYTHING the medical industry says either so I can't blame you for being doubtful.

I don't doubt this one though.

By the way I asked 2 Urlogolist and Onclolist about this and they were clueless. But, all of them have bben too busy with their surgeries and prescriptions to do thespecific research on the web to learn this. So if you go and ask your local physician or specialist, I wuldn't be a bit suprised if they don't back it up either.

i married a nice guy, we both have pasts, we were not angels before. but i chose a nice guy, made to many mistakes with not so nice guys before. but i know what phoenix means, its a turn off for guys to act too cocky. and my nice guy is good lookin to, but that is in the eye of the beholder

Love is love and sex is sex.

I can love someone and have sex with them. I can also not have sex with them again and still love them.

I am really good at having balls and explaining to my partner what I want. She will figure my motives out if I am dishonest anyway. Waste of time. Which is why they know from the gate what is up. I don't think men give women enough credit. They are not emotionally fragile. The ones I know are damn strong inside. They have the same desires as I do too. Guys need to stop being tools and tell women what they want. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out.

You can still be nice, have fun and be intimate.

That doesn't mean you have to get married though. For me anyway.

Alright robn375 is there anyway you can post on here a link that may back up your claims that you are talking about?

Please please please don't just click and paste the entire article just send us a link. I am curious as to where you get your "highly supported medical evidence."
I mainly just want to know the source.

Because everything i have read would suggest otherwise.. Like research that the American Cancer Society has done.

to quote steph on another thread re: sex and cancer, hahahahahhahahaha

okay i get it now..this guy just joined HS recently with an agenda at hand...never mind....I got sucked in.....