I went down the same road ! I was lucky enough to find a wonderful partner for awhile. We would make love for hours and usually two to three times a day until we could do it any more. Life circumstances ended that relationship, but I am still so thankful for her love while it lasted. :)

I think the driving force was that I was with my wife for 18 years and making love with her was one sided most of the time and the relationship wasent a very good one. Once I broke out of that mold and moved on it was so much better! Its amazing when you have a lover that cares as much about your needs, wants, and desires as you do about thiers.

I know what ya mean and even got to a point were masturbation lost its fun and became routine.

I try to keep myself busy so I don't think about all the wonderful love and sex I may be missing out on, and with being self employed, that's not hard to do.

I don't know if that's good or bad but it's what I am use to, so I'll keep on doing what I've been doing unless a woman happens to walk by me and wants to know my name,

~~~ Peace ~~~

My sex drive is quite high. I will just say I go through a lot of batteries ;)

^ Need to switch to rechargeable batteries! :)

Noted Bubba lol

That does happen when you go through a divorce and good for you. Katie

Thank you for the responses! Makes me feel a little less alone in my journey!

I've always had a high sex drive. During the last year and a half of my first marriage and for nearly a year after my sex drive dropped significantly. It returned to normal (for me) about 8 months after the divorce was final but I have never felt that it was so high that I was almost out of control.

Going through that right now! Mine is quite high at moment lol

I'm going through the same thing.
There is something that works great for me. You just plug it in and recharge it.. Like a phone. :-)

oh man yes! After my ex and I split, my drive went through the roof and over the moon! Nothing seems to satisfy me, for a few hours later, I want more. I have to force myself to accept what I've had. It's hard to do!

Mine very high right now. :)

Mine is sky high since being on Testosterone therapy for the last couple of years. I cope by doing lots of cardio and weightlifting during the week and the wife takes of me on the weekend. :)

Hi, I am new to the support group and I have to join in order to complete a study for my masters program. Although I am young, I do have a strong appetite for sex and I enjoy it with my husband. I guess for us sex is something about the physical thrill while others its about being close and expressing intimacy. For us, sex is a way that show respect to each other in a way that pleases God. We have sex every other day if not every day. I have never been around vary many people that openly discussed their sex life so I am hoping this experience will help me become more aware of the struggles and strengths of other couples and how the experience of being in a group can help me be a better therapist in the future.

Find a girl so you don't have to use hands. Its not so fun after a while.