Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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Sex Lover with a Sex Hater?

blind31717
blind31717

I LOVE sex, I feel like more than most people, making out, grabbing each other, affection, flirting, all of it-I love it. But my husband could care less about any of it. We have sex maybe once a week and its when he wants it and super quick, he doesn't do any foreplay whatsoever. I find myself masturbating daily, sometimes a few times. What is wrong with me. 

samtan1964
samtan1964
I do feel for you. In my case it is my wife who is not interested at all in sex, as she puts it there is no spark whatsoever. I feel so guilty for even suggesting a bit of intimacy but even that is turned down.

Why not ask your hubby what turns him on? Is there anything you can do together? Dancing classes?
dyinginside35
dyinginside35
Nothing is wrong witn you. I have a few boyfriends that didnt believe in oral or even wanting it all, odd for a man to not want sex and i want it all the time. I have found since i hit 30 my sex drive is in overdrive, sometimes self pleasure happens 2x a day. I think something is wrong w me since i crave it so much but also im single so maybe that explains it all

Im a closet freak u could say, shy quiet girl by day thats a good girl then naughty by night. Any time you want to talk, feel free to message. I even tried to get my ex to watch porn w me and wouldnt do that, once agajn strange.