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lladyfairhair
lladyfairhair
For some reason ... I cant kiss the entire time during sex.
I can only concentrate on one thing at a time. If I am kissing... I am enjoying that...but I also want to concentrate on the love making. But I cant do both- it seems.

Can anyone do both?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I can, but i don't like to
lladyfairhair
lladyfairhair
Ok now I dont feel like the only one- thank you mdio -

I really like to kiss when having sex...its just not the whole entire time through everything- I want to turn my head side to side when thrashing about and I cant kiss when that is going on.
deleted_user
deleted_user
exactly!

There are things I want to say, places i want to lick and suck and bite.....

I've never understood people who keep their lips firmly clamped to their partners during sex........and french kissing for that long gets nauseating. A few deep, long kisses are great, but there are too many other things to do with your mouth!
lladyfairhair
lladyfairhair
Exaaaaactly... ;)
deleted_user
deleted_user
And if you are doing it doggie, I guess the neck strain would get to you after a while LOL
zigy
zigy
not if u get anal while on your back
deleted_user
deleted_user
I can honestly say I've never had sweet, tender, anal sex that required a lot of kissing to be going on, even when face to face. The two seem to contradict one another-- "sweet, tender" and "anal sex"
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yeah true sometimes instead of kissing its good to look at each other.......or watch the action going on down there......................bite a neck or nipple...............mmmmm.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I like kissing during sex.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
Get on top of your SO facing him and have him switch between your nipples and your mouth while you are grinding on him. If you haven't already experienced this, it's awesome! May need more then one pilow behind his head however. Depends how tall you are!

Good Luck!
lladyfairhair
lladyfairhair
Yup Bob, you are right it is awesome!

Maybe I'll clarify more...
Can anyone, especially women... (I think because they have to focus more sometimes) kiss AND orgasm BOTH at the exact same time?
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