Haven't gotten anyone pregnant, so I can't comment, but I imagine pregnancy would cool me out towards sex considerably (as if I'm not already). During the term, I'd be worried about damaging our kid, and after birth, I'd be gun-shy (not another child-!), unless I got a vasectomy or she got a TL.

well, from my having 3 kids experience, I wanted it more than I did not pregnant...and that was all the time..LOL..

koolman...there is no reason, other than a complicated pregnancy, for you to not be intimate...seeing how you are such a physical person..I would guess that you would feel differently...it took my X a bit to realize that NO he wasn't hurting either of us..and hey..the damage is already done..LOL..

I can answer this one...

At 16 weeks now I can say finding a comfortable position is quite a challenge and the last few times all that rocking has made me nauseous as hell.

The mind set is now that Im ok with the morning sickness is give me some now! He's been ok with it....

And guys unless you deliberately slam the woman there aint no way you are going to hurt the baby. Sex is great during pregnancy you just have to be willing to take it a little slow and be a little more gentle than you would normally be...Sex is usually very safe....even with toys...

Dont worry if she's not in the mood...there is always another time...and there are ways to satisify each other without intercourse. Pregnancy does take a lot out of a woman so be prepared if she doesnt feel good on occasion...Hope this helps...

That is so true Morgan - I was so horny during both of my pregnancies. Unless a women is a high risk pregnancy everything's still a go. I played volleyball and was diving all over the court when I was 7 months and still played softball until the umpire told me he couldn't see the plate because my belly! LOL
For God's sake people, we're not handicapped, just pregnant!

SO EVERYONE IS IN A HAPPILY MARRIED RELATIONSHIP EVERY SINGLE TIME THAT THEY GET PREGNANT?

No actually we were about to separate when I got prego with my first.

I GUESS I'M ASKING ABOUT THE RAMMIFACATIONS OF BECOMING PREGNANT.



MY WIFE AND I WERE HAPPILY MARRIED WHEN SHE GOT PREGNANT, BUT WHEN HE WAS BORN, WE ALMOST IMMIDIATELY HEADED ON THE PATH FOR DIVORCE.


NOW SHE IS PREGNANT BY SOME GUY WHO SHE WAS MESSING AROUND WITH AND HE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER OR HIS CHILD THAT IS DUE IN NOVEMBER.

PREGNANCY IS SERIOUS SHIT, AND IT ONLY COMES FROM SEX. DOES THAT THOUGHT EVER COME UP WHEN HAVING SEX WITH SOMEBODY, HOW A CHILD WILL AFFECT THE RELATIONSHIP?

I hear ya Gzus

That would depend on the person dude...the individual. Having kids whether biologically or otherwise shouldnt have to affect the relationship at all.

The guys I was with before my husband I did worry about getting pregnant even though I was on the pill and always used a condom. But in the heat of the moment that's the last thing you want to think about, you just want to get going. lol.
With my husband I still thought about it early in our relationship but I wasn't worried. I think it's because he is completely different from all the guys I had dated in the past and I knew that if I did get pregnant that everything would be okay.

While I was pregnant with my first child we didn't want to risk anything but man o man did I want some serious action. The second time I was pregnant I had too many complications so we never had sex during the pregnancy.

Now we are trying again and it's not easy to have sex when your wanting to get pregnant. We have to just think of it as having fun and just doing our thing. If I do get pregnant now I will likely be a high risk pregnancy so sex will have to be limited.

I only sleep with people who I'm really into for many reasons, mostly emotive. But one reason is excatly that; no matter what contraception you use, nothing is 100% and although I'm not anti-abortion I know that my depressive illness wouldn't allow me to get over the guilt of abortion, so I realise that pregnancy is a very real risk of sex.

I was in a steady relatioship, but it was abusive, being pregnant made me become very protective of my body, especially my tummy where my little one was.............being pregnant and having someelse to be responsible for who totally depended on me changed mt attitude toward everything.....
I was at the time prepared 2 accept abuse of myself but once i had new life inside me i became different.....
My mindset changed in that i knew having sex really could mean having a child....so sex felt much riskyer after that...
Because i never wanted 2 have any children i got steralized when i was 26 so sex was no longer a worry 4 me....unfortunately my so has never been a very sexual person but it still takes the worry away when we do , do it.....

OK, WHO HAS HAD A CHILD AND IS STILL WITH THE PERSON THAT YOU MADE THAT CHILD WITH?


OR ARE THOSE CREATURES EXTINCT?

mm well both my pregnancies was an accident. but i stayed with the 1st partner for 6 yrs then i left as we fell out of love and the 2nd one dont want to talk bout lol. but i do get scared with regards to having sex and gettin pregnant.xxx

Gzus I know there are some out there, but to quote a wise man. And Ive tried to make the marriages work , but his advice was simple.

Never put your weapon in the case, less the case be one you can spend a lifetime with