Healthy Sex Support Group
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Are there any general rules as to what physical types attract each other? I'm a slender guy and tend to go for slender women attractive. Despite my best efforts to try and get an erection with a dare-I-say fat woman, I can't do it! Is there something psychologically intimidated in me about being smothered or swallowed up by her? I do have a large cock, but it shrinks every time when I look at a heavy woman.
I know the emotional aspect of a relationship, blah blah blah, but, in purely lustful terms, do fat people tend to attract other fat people and slender people tend to attract other slender people?
I know fat guys would love to get slender girls, and vice versa, but, in terms of actually hooking up and having sex, it doesn't seem to work that way. It seems we all look for someone similar TO OURSELVES, including physically...is this some primordial evolutionary desire to procreate human beings similar to ourselves?
I know the emotional aspect of a relationship, blah blah blah, but, in purely lustful terms, do fat people tend to attract other fat people and slender people tend to attract other slender people?
I know fat guys would love to get slender girls, and vice versa, but, in terms of actually hooking up and having sex, it doesn't seem to work that way. It seems we all look for someone similar TO OURSELVES, including physically...is this some primordial evolutionary desire to procreate human beings similar to ourselves?
What we are physically attracted to is what we are physically attracted to!!!
I'm about 5'3" and most of the guys I dated, when a young woman, seemed to all have been about 6'4"!!!!
That, I think, was more of a result of who was attracted to me, rather than I to them!!!
What fun!!!! Dancing with a guy, staring into his shirt pocket!!!
Kissing goodnight was only fun if we were on stairs, which allowed me to even out the height!!! And sex was more problematic than exciting!!!
My happiest times were with guys who were about 5'8"!
And that's my preference now!!
Surely that doesn't make me horrible, for not caring to become involved with tall guys!!!?
It's the perfect height (for me) for making love!!!
Physical attraction is NOT my top requirement, though it IS what draws me initally.
I'm attracted, on the deepest level, to extreme intelligence. The package it comes in is secondary!!!
Or does even that make me shallow? That I am totally turned off unless a man possesses a really high IQ!!?
Oh, well!!! Thank God there's a lot of different types out there!!!!
It basically said that were attracted to peoples "triangles", shoulder width:waist.
We do this bacause the type of triangle we aim for is inbuilt and will compliment our own immune system so we have a healthy babies!!
This all in the sub-conscious!!
Interesting hey??
Get a life.
And a brain. For the most part the size dress a woman wears has nothing to do with her abilities to handle big goys. big where it counts that is... and that is obviously not you!
I think too much is about the "cosmetic" side of what is socially acceptable.
We are all victims of the demands of what is socially acceptable.
Get a 'perfect partner' (?) and have a nice job {each} and have 2.2 children.
Awww.... LOL
In an ideal world perhaps, in the Real World it is so different.
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Yeah it is mean..........
....average :-)
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I wonder a lot too, I can wander too.
Statistics don't mean a lot, they are just number-crunchers babies :-)
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