Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

4,510 Members

18,215 Posts

0 Online

jokiwhau 02/17/2015

I was married for over 20 years, and am recently divorced. I started dating a guy 2 months ago, and he likes rough sex. Surprisingly enough - I like it too! What the heck does that say about me??? I was a housewife for 20 years and had boring sex, and now that I am having so much fun I feel like something must be wrong with me!

onetoomany 03/02/2015

enjoy!

I don't want it rough all the time but do like it sometimes.
My BF is not up for it......He is afraid he will hurt me! LOL!

LivingWater 03/02/2015

This discussion brings back memories of when I had my first sexual encounter with a Puerto Rican guy. I was 33, he was 23. When we were ready, he asked, "Do you like it rough?" I said "yes". Well, he started banging me in Philly and I woke up in Camden!! LOL Moral of the story: "rough" means something different to a 23 year-old Puerto Rican than it did to my anglo-saxon lovers!

jokiwhau 03/03/2015

LOL LivingWater!

Thanks everyone for the comments. :-)

bdsmalways 03/04/2015

I also adore it "rough" , but can't find a lover who even understands the concept I am ecstatic for you .. My favorite is roughness tempered with tenderness ..silk scarves in lieu of leather restraints , much forceful affection etc .. I also had a marriage of boring sex and I somehow like you intend to make up for it . Just need to find the right man to get me juicy and follow his strong libido and dominate me in a loving way ..always , bdsm

debmitchell 03/05/2015

Lol LivingWater!

I had a hard time teaching my husband that, even if he's more than a foot taller than me and weighs twice as much, I'm not made of glass. I usually have to use my teeth and claws first if I want it rough :D

Bubbabiker 03/05/2015

LOL Deb! :)

Join the Conversation