Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
Like most men, I had my share of "fun". In my teens if I wasn't having sex I was thinking of having sex. There were so many pretty girls at my school and I planned on bedding them all. In my mind I must have thought of ways to do it not found in any book.
The reality is different, I'd say that 99% of those girls finished school virgins as far as I know.
Guys, especially young ones, tend to think more in numbers, while girls think more terms of real relationships.
My question is: Does your reality come close to your fantasies? For me the answer is, not even close.
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I know that most people like to order from Amazon but I am an eBay girl. I discovered that there are third-party sellers for Walmart on eBay. The prices are excellent, much less than directly from Walmart. For example, I recently bought a 30 ounce container of cashews at Walmart for $11.49 or something like that. I thought that was a good price but guess what? Yesterday morning, I...
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I'm talking to this girl on a dating site, It's one of these pay-as-go things. So, You have to buy credit to talk to other member's.I just tryed it, I was curious about, it, I wanted to see who was out there. one girl I favorite, was cute, her profile said she was from the United States, But, she sent me a sound bite, turns out she was from Mexico, But, I continuued the...
When I married at age 22 I was a virgin.
Was nothing, NOTHING, like I thought it would be.
My 2nd husband was is...whatever...perfectly fine.
In my mind it should be someone that adores me and thinks Im perfectly beautiful. Someone who is proud Im theirs and fights for me. Someone who only wants to be close to me and me alone.
Will I ever get this, most likely not.
In reality I am a widow for nearly 3 years, my husband battled cancer for 2 years but we had quit having sex before his cancer due to other health issues. So in reality not much happening for me sex wise but as I masturbate then my fantasies take over and I have a very good sex life with a really good partner who may be a little on the kinky side.
The one woman I was with in my real life who I actually liked and found beautiful did not feel the same about me, but she continued to be with me because I helped HER feel beautiful, special, desirable. In short, she was selfish, and that seems to be the reality of human nature--we all use each other for selfish gain. After about 6 months of that, I felt, well, "meh" toward her too and I drifted away from her.