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hi , i dont know how to start this topic of small penises. im a larger girl and my fience and i are so much in love but hes smaller then average were so limited to sex positions because they just dont work i finally mentioned to him i was curous in finding out about penis enlargement so we can enjoy eachother to the full potentail we have. so my question is does anyone know about enlarging penises? or know if its safe or if it could harm the chances of having children because we defintly want another child forsure , we got one now but want more in the future
Lots of men are smaller than average (that's why it's an average) so there is probably nothing physically wrong with him.
There is an operation that can add about an inch. Other than that, there's not much you can do with the natural organ. There are lots of places that will sell you snake oil though.
There are penile sleeves which are basically dildoes that go over the penis.
You said you are a "large girl". Do you mean you have a very large vagina or are you substantially exceeding the ideal weight for your height?
Either way, there are surgeries YOU can have that will solve your problems if you really think surgical intervention is the way to go.
With surgery, there are many risks involved. Doesn't sound like it's worth the risk IMO, he would probably end up with more serious problems. (article below)
Since you're a larger woman (I see from your profile you belong to the obesity board), losing weight and getting yourself in shape can definitely help with positions and pleasure.
Surgical treatment
Since 1971, penile-lengthening surgery has been offered to men with severe shortening due to congenital abnormalities (abnormalities present from birth), surgery (for penile cancer or Peyronie's disease) or trauma (accidental or deliberate amputation).
Cosmetic surgery to increase penile girth, or thickness, began in the USA in the late 1980s.
Techniques for cosmetic lengthening were described in 1990. More than 10,000 men have had such surgery, but reliable information about results and complications have not been published in a peer-reviewed journal (a journal where the quality and content of the research is checked by independent experts). Given the number of operations performed, this fact is both astounding and worrying.
Penile lengthening: the most common technique to lengthen the penis is to cut its suspensory ligament then perform plastic surgery to provide additional skin to cover its new length. The results are difficult to judge, as surgeons have not collected data in a systematic manner. The results of the only reliable study indicate that dividing the suspensory ligament alone results in an average increase of 0.5cm (around 0.25in) in length, while skin advancement increases the length gain to 1.6cm (around 0.75in). These figures do not compare well with the claims made by some clinics. Some people, undoubtedly, do better than average, while others do worse.
The suspensory ligament does have a role, in that it helps keep the penis pointing upwards during erection. After it has been divided, that support is no longer present. After surgery, some men find that they have gained a small increase in flaccid length, but the erect penis is about the same size and now points towards the floor!
Increasing penile girth (thickness): this treatment may be performed with a lengthening procedure or on its own. There are two techniques in common use:
injection of liposuctioned fat, from the abdominal wall or thighs, into the dartos fascia, under the skin of the penile shaft.
placing grafts of dermis (a layer of tissue from under the skin surface that is well supplied with blood vessels) and fat from the groin or buttock area within the penile shaft.
The results following injection of liposuctioned fat can be deeply disappointing. Up to 90 per cent of the fat can disappear within a year. Grafts seem to do rather better, but there is no reliable published data on long-term results.
Complications following surgery
At least one person has died from bleeding after augmentation surgery. Apart from the risks of infection and bleeding, specific complications exist for each procedure.
Lengthening procedures
Scrotalisation of the penis, in which the penis appears to arise from the scrotum instead of the abdominal wall.
'Dog-ears' at each end of the operation scar.
Sloughing of the skin used to increase penile length (the skin has a poor blood supply and therefore dies, leaving a deep, ulcerated area).
Girth-increasing procedures
Loss of girth due to fat reabsorption.
Nodule formation, if the implanted fat does not disappear uniformly. The penis can be left with a deformed appearance, with irregular fatty lumps all over it.
from: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/facts/penissize.htm
I agree with the others that the better option would be to lose weight. That having been said, just by reading your general profile information it sounds like you have quite a few issues you are (or have) dealing with and perhaps losing weight is not very high on your list of priorities. But asking him to have a surgical procedure to increase his penis size for your relationship sounds kind of selfish. It's like the women that get all upset because their boyfriends ask them to get breast augmentation surgery.
Find other was to pleasure yourselves rather than opting for snake oils that do NOTHING or for risky surgery with questionable results ... and nowhere near the 2" you're looking for.
Or try extenders
Also known as a PPA, this hollow, penis-shaped dildo fits over your own penis. You can use these to increase the length or width of your penis, to sustain or simulate an erection, or just because you feel like having a different penis for the day.
http://www.mypleasure.com/s-153-penis-extenders.aspx
https://www.facebook.com/notes/palmer-whitey/common-mistakes-men-make-with-penis-enlargement-exercise/167331673677318