I personally have never had an orgasm from intercourse alone. There needs to be some type of clitoral flickage lol.

Like, it feels good, really good, but it doesn't make me come.

I'm pretty sure a lot of women don't have vaginal orgasms and there is a debate as old as time whether it's actually even possible, or whether "vaginal orgasms" are really just G-spot orgasms.

In my opinion, it can probably be both, depending on the person. I was once in a relationship with a woman who could ONLY have vaginal orgasms. She never had a clitoral orgasm.

So, in other words, no, there's nothing wrong with you.

Just keep exploring and find out what you like and what feels good to you, and let your partners know. And I always say don't make the orgasm the "goal," but focus on enjoying yourself and pleasing your partner.

Thanks for the advice. It makes sense. Just no part of intercourse feels pleasurable at all, it's like I cannot really even feel anyone in me or where they are touching or pushing etc. The only feeling I have ever experienced is pain, no good feeling or pleasure at all.

Hmm maybe you're stressing yourself out too much by trying to get an orgasm? Just relax and enjoy yourself; If you have one great, if you don't there's always the next time.

Also about stress, is there something else major or something happening in your life? A lot of times what's going on with us emotionally can trickle down to us physically.

Maybe buy some new toys/lube to start pleasing yourself again that way in due time you can let your partner know what/where feels good.

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Thanks for your reply. Partly I think it's the stress of not svrewing up, and partly I think it is the pain associated with intercourse.

It's completely normal and happens to a lot of people (myself included). There are a lot of different reasons why it could happen. Stress, like you guys already said, is a big one, and sometimes getting stuck inside your own head during the act and wondering why it's not happening makes it worse. But there's a lot of other possibilities, too. A lot of women simply can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation. But if you're experiencing pain with sex, you should talk to your doctor because there are a few conditions that can cause it and they might be able to help you (they're not all serious conditions, mind you, some are just annoying). Sometimes pain is just a penis size thing or a lack of lubrication, but if you Google your specific symptoms you might find something that'll point you in the right direction!

I don't know what "normal" is, but maybe it's psychological, emotional spirotual, maybe you just don't love the person you're having sex with very intensely, or you don't trust them, or trust yourself, enough to "let go". Or maybe you're afraid and will be ashamed your orgasm will physically make a mess.

Have you tried being on top, “the cowgirl”? I have an orgasm every time with that. I’m weird, if I’m on my period, I can come fully clothed by dry humping.

Hello all, I came on here to ask a similar question & all of the replies are really good. I can't cum sexually either. It's very rare. I fake orgasms on the regular unfortunately. I have talked about this with my partner. He's so supportive & committed to pleasing me, but I'm so bored with it all. I'm literally just not ok sexually. I'm frustrated & jealous of the fact that he's having all the fun 100% of the time. I have decided to masturbate weekly. I have to release. I'm so sexually frustrated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well as a guy I don’t know if I can help but from my experience with a very very cold wife I could say that the most problem is yours boyfriend. It depends on him to make you feel good comfortable playing with light kisses all over your body but not directly to your vagina turning on you and finding the perfect- right time when he can get inside you. If he is the type of guy who just see your vagina wants to get in and thinking only about his pleasure than yes you probably never will experience an orgasme. You should play with each other first before you go to the act. Also and then he must need to stimulate you during the act. Talking is a good point to. Telling him what do you want or your fantasy might help also

i usually orgasm every time unless mad a t boyfriend then have no interest while he's pumping and dumping. if mad foreplay that gets me hot is terrible setting scenario for session. i need feel romatic and in love with person to orgasm during intercourse i expect much fore and after play when happy .

I never orgasm with intercourse. I do with foreplay and oral sex but not penetration thats just the way I am . It is normal alot of women don't orgasm from penetration.