Everyone masturbates. I think that it is natural and not a big deal but if that becomes the preferred choice over being intimate with your partner then I would say there is an issue. I think that talking about it with your partner is important. Open and honest communication is key. The moral issue well I don't understand that part of it because I think that is passing judgment on someone and I don't judge. To each their own. Whatever floats your boat..lol
I don't think there are rules about how much a person should masturbate. Everyone is different and everyone has a different sex drive. I think that people make it such a taboo subject and I never understood why. I think it can be talked about and 2 people should be comfortable talking about it. Especially if they are a couple and are together. Just my 2 cents....

Have you heard of this thing called Fleshlight? There is a podcast called sex with Emily and she is always talking about it. Suppose to be a tool to help men last longer and also a masturbation aid.

I know a guy that bought one. He told me about it.
I told him.....okay thanks for telling me...enjoy! LOL

Ok..don't think I'm a freak..but i am kinky. I found out long ago, take a hoover vacuum cleaner..put a condom on..put a plastic bag in the end of the hose with a hole in it so the suction holds it In there..put some lotion on your peter..turn it on..put it in there..kinda hold it so it doesn't suck all of it in..and I'll tell you what..once you find that spot where it vibrates on the head and the back side..it will make you cum so hard that you're toes will curl backwards..

wow and here all I was doing was old fashion Grab and tug or sex with my fianc. seems like I might be doing it wrong, no? hahaha. Although I do need to get A LOT more kinky and experiment a bit more in the bedroom haha.

I have never heard of anyone "doing" a vacuum before.
Learn something new each day....LOL Oh my! :)

Oh yeah..it's an I love trick..but not many talk about it for fear of others making fun if them..but keeps you from getting others involved!

So you are telling me that a hidden secret are most men "doing" their vacuums? I am going to have to ask some male friends because I am just dying to know and I know they will tell me. But in any event enjoy and be careful. That thing might have a lot of suction..LOL :)

Thats a new secret if I've ever heard it.
I thought we all just yanked our cord and let it out all over the place in the freedom of of the open air no devices needed
I know there are some kinky ideas out there but I never really assumed people would actually be taking chances with them.
It would be like if girls always masturbated using bananas or cucumbers or their shower heads. You could really take anything and put it on your dick or in your pussy and go to town.

Here is proof of the weird shit people do in the funniest of ways. It gets ridiculous and you need sound, this is hilarious!
http://youtu.be/oM2PwriqOjc

CNt copy and paste YouTube from your phone. Have to copy it in some other complicated way. I don't recall how to do it. It's pretty annoying that you have to do it.

I have heard of guys wondering about the vacuum thing and saying it would probably be a lot of turning it on and turning it off. I'm sure many have experimented with it. If I were a guy, don't think I would try it with newer vacuums. The suction is pretty strong on them now.

Ummmm...I highly don't putting "anything" in a vagina...thank you very much...LOL LOL LOL

I meant to say this...I highly doubt putting "anything" in to a vagina...LOL Too funny'