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Just wondering how adventurous every one is. There are no right or wrong answers. You dont even have to answer each question in a post, just think about what you would answer and why you would answer that way and post your general feelings about why you fell that way. If you are really adventurous you can post your answers to each question.
Have done any of these or would do them if you had the opportunity:
1. Would you have sex in a park?
2. Would you have sex in a car?
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place?
4. Would you have sex on a beach?
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex?
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you?
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal?
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded?
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it?
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!!
11. Have you ever tried Role Play?
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item?
13. Would you ever go out in public commando?
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress?
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes?
16. Do you sleep naked?
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public?
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public?
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public?
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender?
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender?
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more?
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club?
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked?
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd?
26. Have you ever skinny dipped?
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare?
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes?
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked?
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them?
Have done any of these or would do them if you had the opportunity:
1. Would you have sex in a park?
2. Would you have sex in a car?
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place?
4. Would you have sex on a beach?
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex?
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you?
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal?
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded?
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it?
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!!
11. Have you ever tried Role Play?
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item?
13. Would you ever go out in public commando?
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress?
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes?
16. Do you sleep naked?
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public?
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public?
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public?
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender?
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender?
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more?
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club?
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked?
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd?
26. Have you ever skinny dipped?
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare?
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes?
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked?
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them?
1. Would you have sex in a park? I HAVE
2. Would you have sex in a car? I HAVE
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? I HAVE
4. Would you have sex on a beach? I HAVE
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? BOTH
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? YES & YES
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? IT'S ABOUT EQUAL
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? NO
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? NO & YES
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! IT DEPENDS ON WHAT IT IS
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? NO
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? YES
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? NO
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? NO
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? YES
16. Do you sleep naked? YES
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? NO
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? NO
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? NO
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? NO
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? MAYBE?
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? NO
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? NO
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? NO
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? NO
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? YES
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? NO
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? YES
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? NO
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? NO
Posted on 10/09/12, 05:44 pm
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? BOTH
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? Im not really clear on what talking dirty is, asking for it harder and faster? Then yes, but thats about it.
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? Mostly partners made the first move, but I would love to be in a relationship that would inspire me to make the first move more often.
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!
! IT DEPENDS ON WHAT IT IS
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? YES, but Im a little picky about eating sweet candy like things so It doesnt sound that appealing. I dont really need that incentive to lick someone I like enough to be naked with.
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? NO, the closest I came to this was when my neighbor cut down all my redbud trees between our houses. I went out the next day while they were home in the tiniest bikini I owned and meticulously sprayed every little weed in my yard and tree line between our houses. Hey - they wanted a better view and they GOT one!
16. Do you sleep naked? Sometimes, but rarely since being single.
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? Not on purpose, I accidentally flashed my nipple at a public pool when I was younger.
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? IN my house, yes, but I have a couple windows that are not completely covered, so I always thinks that one day I am going to give either the UPS man or mailman a show.
1. Would you have sex in a park? I've done that a long time ago as a teenager
2. Would you have sex in a car? Did this A LOT with my last partner, I had 2 teenagers and a toddler and not much privacy at home. We were pretty adventurous
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? Certainly would, though not much chance now
4. Would you have sex on a beach? I'd love to as I've never done it
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? Usually have sex in the morning as partner has more success then so it's pretty light but I like it in the dark as feels more intense
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? Not in this relationship but have done in others
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? He likes me to but he does if I haven't for a few days
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? Yes
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? Ex husband was VERY into this, so much so that it turned me off it
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! I wish he would!
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? Yes
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? Yes I would but partner is very conservative now he's older, tho he used to do a lot of these things with ex's
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? Probably not now but have done in the past
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? Yes did this when I was younger
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? If only lol! But used to with ex partner a lot
16. Do you sleep naked? Usually do with partner, usually not when I'm at home on my own
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? No
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? No
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? No
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender?
No
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? Yes if I felt close enough to them
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? Yes, me with two guys
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? No
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? No
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? No, nightmare lol!
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? No
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? Walked up to a guy in a bar and unzipped his jeans
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? Not drunk, but had my drink spiked and came to in a bedroom with guy giving me oral with people coming in and out of the room
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? Round the house when on my own but only topless in the back garden
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? No, I've tried the ones I fancied doing
1. Would you have sex in a park? HAVE NOT.
2. Would you have sex in a car? HAVE NOT BUT WOULD LIKE TO.
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? HAVE NOT.
4. Would you have sex on a beach? YES. I DID ON MY HONEYMOON
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? ON
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? NO.
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal?
I ALWAYS DO BUT WISH THAT SHE WOULD
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? NO. BUT SOUNDS FUN.
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM? NO
if not would you consider trying it? NO
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! YES
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? NO BUT WOULD LIKE IT.
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? YES. CHOCOLATE
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? YES. HAVE.
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? N.A.
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? MAYBE
16. Do you sleep naked? NOT CURRENTLY BUT HAVE.
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? NO.
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? NO
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? ONLY IN MY DREAMS
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? NO
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? NEVER
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? NO
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? NO
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? YES. TWICE.
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? NO
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? YES. LOVE IT.
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? NO
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? NO.
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? YES.
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? NO.
Yes, and I have. Not a city park, secluded areas with very little chance of being interrupted.
2. Would you have sex in a car?
Yes, and I have.
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place?
Only if #1 or #4 count.
4. Would you have sex on a beach?
Omg, yes. On the pink sand beach on Harbour Island, in the Bahamas, at sunset. The most beautiful place I've ever had sex.
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex?
Depends on the moment.
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you?
Yes.
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal?
About equal, a little slanted toward me.
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded?
Yes.
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it?
It's a fairly regular thing for me and my husband.
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!!
Yes, Sir.
11. Have you ever tried Role Play?
Yes.
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item?
I would if he wanted me to. Holds no particular interest for me, though.
13. Would you ever go out in public commando?
Only as a punishment.
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress?
Same as above.
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes?
Yes.
16. Do you sleep naked?
It's kinda a rule for me lol
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public?
No.
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public?
No.
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public?
No.
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender?
Yes.
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender?
Yes.
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more?
A threesome, FMF.
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club?
No.
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked?
No.
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd?
No.
26. Have you ever skinny dipped?
No.
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare?
Yes.
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes?
Embarrassed to say, yes. I never drank that much again.
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked?
Around the house, yes. The back yard... as a punishment, my husband will throw a key into the back yard, then throw me out and lock the door.
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them?
Nope.
I had sex on the beach in front of Breezes in Nassau.
back to question 28 " Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? "
I must have partied way to much when I was younger..On different occasions - I lost my clothes (a few times) - lost my car (more then a few times) - ended up in a place I didn't know (a few times) even ended up 2 states away (one time)...That was the hardest to explain to work.. "Hi I won't be in today - I have no idea where I am or how I got here" Then I walked around the house and saw that I knew 3 people, they were college friends, but I hadn't started partying with them that night. (Started the night in NY, ended up in Rhode Island). It baffles me to this day..and that was over 35 years ago.,
1. Would you have sex in a park? Yes.
2. Would you have sex in a car? Yes, and I have.
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? Yes.
4. Would you have sex on a beach? Yes.
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? Both, normally on though.
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? Oh, yes.
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? He normally makes the move first.
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? Mmmmhmmm.
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? Yep, love it.
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! I'm open to just about everything.
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? No.
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? Yes.
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? Yes, and I do ALL the time.
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? Yes, I normally do, I don't want panty lines.
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? Yes, and I have.
16. Do you sleep naked? Every night.
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? No.
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? No.
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? Yes, it was dark out though.
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? No.
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? Yes.
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? No.
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? Nope.
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? No, but I have been to one before.
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? Yes.
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? Yes, lots!
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? I don't think so.
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? No.
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? Yep.
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? Maybe..?
@WhyMe, I especially like your answers to questions #13 and #14. Like a breath of fresh air. Ahhhhh!