Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
2. Would you have sex in a car? Yes
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? How public?
4. Would you have sex on a beach? Yes
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? Either or.
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? Yes
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? Either or
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? No
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? No
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! Depends on what it is
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? Yes sort of
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? Yes
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? Never without a bra
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? Don't wear skirts or dresses if I don't have too.. So probably no
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? Oh yes
16. Do you sleep naked? Sometimes
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? Yes
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? No
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? No
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? No
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? No
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? No
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? No
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? No
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? How big a crowd are you talking?
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? Yes
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? Yes
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? Lol, yes.. More then once
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? In the house. Not outside
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? No
2. Would you have sex in a car? yes-done it
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? yes-done it
4. Would you have sex on a beach? yes-done it
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? yes-on or off, doesn't matter
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? yes-all of the time
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? 50/50
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? no
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? yes-have done it
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! I try it.
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? yes.
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? Probably not w/ wife-but w/ others in the past. We really don't like food and sex combined.
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? I do it all of the time.
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? My wife does it all of the time.
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? Have done it in the past. Wish we would do it more now.
16. Do you sleep naked? All the time. We never sleep w/ any clothes on.
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? No.
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? No.
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? No.
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? No.
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? No.
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? Not since highschool.
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? Yes.
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? Yes.
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? No.
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? Yes.
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? Yes.
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? No.
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? Yes, all of the time, especially to get the newspaper.
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? No.
2. Would you have sex in a car? I used to in my young years, couldn't be bothered having sex in a car now.
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? Not any kind of public place but some I would, a sex or fetish club I would
4. Would you have sex on a beach? On a private beach at night I would.
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? Most often the lights are on with the exception of middle of the night wake up sex
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? Yes and yes
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? Equal
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? Many times
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? Been engaging in BDSM lifestyle for over 30 years, I'm a submissive and a bit of a painslut.
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! I would try anything partner wants to try as long as it's not on my "hard" boundary list. He knows what my hard boundaries are and would not suggest anything that is a hard boundary of mine. His hard boundaries are the same as mine.
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? Yes.
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? Yes, have done it but food play is not a thrill for me. NO for whipped cream though unless he wants me to puke, I hate whipped cream.
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? Have many times
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? Yes, depending on where it is
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? Not in a public bathroom, behind bushes depends on where it is
16. Do you sleep naked? I always sleep naked
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? Many, many years ago at a concert.
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? Nope
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? Nope
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? Yes
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? Sure
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? No but would have a 3some if the circumstances were right and partner and I both agreed on the 3rd person
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? No
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? No but would like to. Nice nudist resort in the Poconos near me. Partner is much more private than I am so I don't see us ever going.
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? No
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? Yes, many times, still do.
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? No
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? No, I don't drink.
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? Yes
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? No, if I want to try something, I try it.
5: lights on most of the time
6: we both talk dirty to each other
7: he makes the first move most of the time but that's mainly because my sex drive is higher than his so I eventually just leave it up to him to let me know when he's up for it
8: no
9: have not and have no desire to. Not in the full sense of it anyway. A little tying up ir whatever might be fun
10: depends. Some things ill just try others I'm like no way
11: no but would like to
12: yes. Yum
13: no
14: no
15: yes
16: sometimes
17 - 20: no
21: I do fantasize about that sometimes but don't know if i'll ever act on it
22-25: no
26: yes
27: yes
28: no
29: in the house yes but not often...in the yard no
30: none that I would call "fetishes"
Have done any of these or would do them if you had the opportunity:
1. Would you have sex in a park? Nope but would love to
2. Would you have sex in a car? no but would love to
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? No but would love to
4. Would you have sex on a beach? no but would love to.
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? Both
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? Yes
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? mostly me but she occasionally starts things.
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? No but would love to.
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? I have a bunch of the bondage stuff and ropes, just need a willing partner.
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! I will try anything
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? No but would love to
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? Yes a few times.
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? I do on occasion
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? Would love my wife to do this but she won't anymore.
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? No but would love to
16. Do you sleep naked? Yes
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? No, would love to see my wife do it.
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? No, would love it if my wife would do that though
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? No but would love it if my wife did
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? No
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? It might be interesting
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? I wish
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? I wish
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? No, I keep trying to talk my wife into doing it but she won't
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? No would love it if my wife would
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? Yes wish my wife would
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? no
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? no dammit..that would be one heck of a party
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? Yes
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? Hmm have to go over the list of fetishes...
1. Would you have sex in a park? Yes - have
2. Would you have sex in a car? Yes- have
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? Yes-have
4. Would you have sex on a beach? Yes-have not
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? Usually off, I'm good either way though
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? Yes
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? Ehhh, I forget
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? No
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? No and yes
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! Depends on what it is, but I'm pretty willing to try.
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? Kinda
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? Yes - have
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? Yes- have
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress?
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? Yes
16. Do you sleep naked? Yes
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? No
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? No
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? Uh, my house and yard yes, public no.
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? No
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? No
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? No
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? No
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? No
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? No...scratch that...yes
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? Yes
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? Uh...don't think so
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? No
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? Yes
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? Willing to try yes, too scared no.
2. Would you have sex in a car? Yes
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? I have on the balcony of beach house and on a golf course at night.
4. Would you have sex on a beach? Yes, if it was private.
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? Both. I prefer to have some lights on even if it is a candle.
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? Yes
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? I enjoy making the first move but I like to know a partner is open to it.
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? No
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? I like some spanking and a little hair pulling occasionally but that is about it.
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! Normally, I would try it. I can only think of one time I didn't.
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? Yes
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? Yes
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? Yes, with a dress or skirt on.
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? Yes
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? Yes if it was private.
16. Do you sleep naked? Occasionally
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? No
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? No
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? No
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? Yes
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? I have.
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? No
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? No
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? No
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? No
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? Many times.
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? No
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? No
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? Not outside.
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? No
2. Would you have sex in a car? yes
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? yes
4. Would you have sex on a beach? only on a blanket no sand!!
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? both, like the lights
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you?both please
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? 25-75 he mostly does
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? yes, hot
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? sort of tried it, want to try more
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! try it of course
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? yes, i love it
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? yes
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? done
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? haven't done thta but might
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? not bathrooms but bushes is cool
16. Do you sleep naked? sometimes
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? not that i know of
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? no lol
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? not really
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? no
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? yes
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? no
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? no
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? no
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? no
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? yes
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? yes of course
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? No
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? yes of course, it's my house
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? yes but there's plenty of time no need to rush
2. Would you have sex in a car? eh maybe
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? depends on HOW PUBLIC
4. Would you have sex on a beach? i have and I would again
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? either
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? sometimes
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? I will make the first move if necessary
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? yes
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? I have not, but would consider
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! I would say hell yea (unless it is just way over the top gross stuff)
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? no....would like to
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? i honestly dont think I would want to clean up the mess.
13. Would you ever go out in public commando? I do all the time
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? yes
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? bathroom-no...gross-behind bushes...i guess it would depend on where we were
16. Do you sleep naked? no
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? no
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? no
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? no
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? no
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? eh...probabaly not
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? no
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? yes..it was quite fun
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? no
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? no
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? yes
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? yes
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? no...yes i have gotten drunk and ended up sleeping with someone that i regretted, but I knew what I was doing and where my clothes were lol
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? no
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? no
1. Would you have sex in a park? I have.
2. Would you have sex in a car? I have.
3. Would you have sex in any kind of public place? No.
4. Would you have sex on a beach? YES, AT SUNSET!!!
5. Do you leave the lights on or turn them off when having sex? Candlelight is wonderful!
6. Do you talk dirty or like to have your mate talk dirty to you? Yes.
7. Do you make the first move or does your mate do it, or is it about equal? Equal.
8. Have you ever had sex blindfolded? No, but would love to try it! Sexy.
9. Have you ever tried S&M or BDSM, if not would you consider trying it? Demon Lover fantasy that involves being tied up with silk scarves and basically worshipped as a Goddess! No pain in my fantasy life.
10. If your partner suggests something you have never tried before, do you try it or just say Hell NO!! Depends.
11. Have you ever tried Role Play? That would be fun.
12. Would you use edible body paint or whipped cream or some other edible item? Yes.
13. Would you ever go out in public commando?
14. (For the women) Would you ever go out in public commando in a short skirt or dress? No.
15. Would you ever have a quickie in the nearest bathroom or behind bushes? No.
16. Do you sleep naked? No.
17. Have you ever flashed anyone out in public? No.
18. Have you ever had your picture taken flashing the picture taker out in public? No.
19. Have you ever walked around naked in public? No.
20. Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender? No.
21. Would you consider trying having sex with someone of the same gender? Yes, but only one person and that is Sarah Brightman.
22. Have you ever had a threesome or more? No, no interest in that.
23. Have you ever gone to a swingers club? NO WAY!
24. Have you ever gone to a nudist colony and gotten naked? No.
25. Have you ever stripped down to your underwear in front of a crowd? No.
26. Have you ever skinny dipped? Yes.
27. Have you ever done anything sexual on a dare? No.
28. Have you ever gone to a party and gotten so drunk you woke up naked trying to figure out where you are and what happened to your clothes? No.
29. Do you walk around your house or go into the yard (front or back) naked? No.
30. Are there any fetishes you would love to try but are to scared to do them? No.
There you have it.