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Infantalism

flutterbyfly
flutterbyfly
I had a date once with a guy. Back around January. We had spoke a few times on the phone before. So, he knew I didn't judge and was pretty open minded. He decided to tell me something about him. Wanted to see if it was something I'd ever do.

He is into infantalism. If you don't know what that is, it's like this.........

He likes to play the role of an infant in the sexual scene. There are "mothers" out there. And they will bring a diaper bag full of things: baby powder, adult cloth diapers, baby lotion, baby bottle, etc. and use each of these things when they are roleplaying.

The "mother" will tell the baby she needs to feed him and she will place him on her breast. Then she will pretend to burp him. Then she has to "change" his diaper. She will put baby powder on his butt and proceed with the cloth diaper. ETC.......

Has anyone ever heard of this? There is a community out there of people that are into this. There is only about 1 "mother" found to every 5 "babies". So, its hard to find a "mother" if you are into this. People will pay big bucks to be "mothered".

What are your thoughts on this? Anyone you know into this?

And yeah, there was no second date. lol I don't judge him. But there was just NO way I could have sex with him ever or us do anything knowing all this. :)
daninflorida
daninflorida
It's not my thing, but from your responses it's clear that "Healthy Sex" is not the place to discuss a fetish. That's what it is. And I've read of some weird crap on here. I guess you've (all of you) have never heard of and would not be accepting of ABF or ANR either. (Google it.) My own opinion is that most men are either babies or little boys deep inside, and miss being comforted by their mothers.
flutterbyfly
flutterbyfly
Dan - I'm not implying if its healthy or not! I just was asking if anyone had heard of it and their thoughts on this. Thats all.

And Kool - the baby does not actually poop or pee when they are changed.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Seen it on a few crime dramas, CSI and SVU and the like, but never heard of anyone that was into it in "real life". I gotta be honest, it would creep the heck out of me. My ex liked to suck on my boobs, but not as a baby, as a man that liked boobs lol.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Everyone is different. Strange things turn people on. I try not to judge. Being a mother to a two year old at the moment I don't think I could get into "mothering" a man like that. I'm sure there are women who could though.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree Piper...being a mother to a 4 month old, I can't picture being a mother to a man in that way. Definitely not for me, but, to each his own. Everyone has different kinks and things that turn them on.
weather
weather
I was engeged to a gal who was a nurse who would bring home diapers, put them on me, and have sex with me. It really turned her on, i think it was the rubber feeling that turned her on. I also believe it is used in the role of domination as a means of making somebody submissive and being in control.
deleted_user
deleted_user
CSI LAS VEGAS ran a show a few years ago on this exact subject. Most ppl dont know this but just about all their shows are based on real groups. The ADULT BABIES, THE PPL WHO DRESS IN ANIMAL OUTFITS. they all are real. As for being apart of the whole sex with someone who needed to change their diaper, well Thats a little too far out for me. Thats saying a hell of alot for me too. I really dont know what the next level of sex is going to be for the generations to come. I can only imagine what sexual thrill will be the new IN THING in 10 years.....
Baby40
Baby40
I'm into it yes. Depending on person some for a kink or sexual in nature. Others like myself for a bond connection not created with bio parents.
brandon18
brandon18
Diaper fetishes are pretty common. It’s not hurting anyone so who cares?
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