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How old were you?

Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I think this question has been asked before but not without an explanation.

How old were you when you lost your cherry? I was 21 and lost it to a much older woman. The reason I was so old is because I was extremely shy back then, and very insecure!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was 19, it was with my boyfriend at the time and we were all alone at a cousin's farm, it was cold. We had been waiting to do it for about a year, the anticipation almost gave us a heart attack, it was great! Mostly the second time due to the nervousness the first time and it did hurt a bit... but it's a great memory!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was 23 and it was aug 26th. dont remember the time except it was daytime in my BFs friend's bed.

I was an old fashioned girl.. saved myself for love. Married the guy 3 yrs later and divorced 18.5 yrs after that.

I do not regret the wait although values have changed.

@Lindsey I guess I was the old maid this time.
gems6490
gems6490
15.. with my now husband
tossedaside
tossedaside
wow its been so long, Im declaring BORN AGAIN VIRGIN status
so still waiting or maybe I'll save it til I'm dead
koolman
koolman
If you call masturbation sex, I was 7. Used to "rub my wee wee" in the same room with my brother. No woody, just applied pressure to the ballless nub, while he ground his against the corner of the bed mattress. Didn't even know what the fuck it meant, just knew it felt good.