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How old were you?

Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I think this question has been asked before but not without an explanation.

How old were you when you lost your cherry? I was 21 and lost it to a much older woman. The reason I was so old is because I was extremely shy back then, and very insecure!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was 15, and it was with a boyfriend I'd had for 6 months and remained with for the next 4 and a half years.
totallychaotic247
totallychaotic247
I was 14....too young to know I should have held out and too used to being called a slut to say no. I figured if I was being accused of having sex, I might as well enjoy myself :) Sadly, I didn't really learn to enjoy myself until I was in my tewenties.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was 20, my BF @ the time waited 6months and never pressured me. He was a great guy and the only one of my ex's that I'm glad to know is happy
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was 21. I had plenty of chances before then, with girls I thought were plenty sexy, but at the time I was a chicken. I still think about my first time fondly though.
deleted_user
deleted_user
@ Merc's #16 - Close, a pretty Lay...
deleted_user
deleted_user
19 to a one night stand
deleted_user
deleted_user
17 to my husband of 13 years.
sidecar
sidecar
To my first wife on our wedding night. I was 19. She was 6 months pregnant by someone else. She cried because it was my first time.
Quickly that changed and our marriage ended 8-1/2 years later after numerous affairs of hers, etc. What a mess we make of things when we are young and don't really understand.
deleted_user
deleted_user
old enough to know better
young enough not to care
luvmy2kids
luvmy2kids
@Hypno....I like your answer
deleted_user
deleted_user
@23 Lay..... a pretty Lay?? hummm??!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
lol 22! it was the other night! does that make me the oldest??
deleted_user
deleted_user
wooot wooot Lindsey! I've been looking for my cherry for 14 years. Oh wait, I have the stem. She had the cherry. LOL. Anyway, she was 21, I was 20. It was both our first times.
deleted_user
deleted_user
lmao! i got a wooot wooot!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was 20 he was 22, both our first times and it sucked.