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This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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Charity6262 08/15/2007

I am kinda new to the whole sex thing. Until I was 17 I thought horny ment the horns on the backs of horned toads (I know its pathedic). I didn't even know what a dildo was until after I was 18. I lost my verginity when I was 19 to my soon to be ex-husband and haven't had it much since then. He prefured one position and that was us laying side by side with him behind me so he wouldn't have to look at me, and if I was lucky it would last 30 seconds. There were a couple of times it was longer but not many. But I did become an expert at giving blow jobs. I gave him one one time that lasted 36 hours without stoping for breaks. Anyway I want to know what pleases a man and different positions I can try. Give the rookie some advice on how to drive a man wild.

cowboy357 08/26/2007

well charity ? did you mean 36 hours in between eating , drinkin n potty ?you can go without sleep , the saliva part would be no prob with water

deleted_user 08/26/2007

Cowboy.....have you ever been hard for 7 or 8 straight hours? At a point you begin to cramp have pain and things just don't feel pleasurable anymore. That is another big reason I don't think it is feasible...at some point there is not more pleasure but instead pain for the man as well as the jaw of the woman :)

cowboy357 08/26/2007

I have been hard for at least 10 hours had sex for about 8 hours I was sore but no cramping, I'm sure the jaw would be sore
but I don't think people should put down this 36 hours until she explains how it was done

deleted_user 08/26/2007

Hmm... the "36 hour blow job" debate...

deleted_user 08/26/2007

It may be the most important debate you hear this year! lol

deleted_user 08/26/2007

lol... I'm in the court room a lot... so I doubt that it will be the most important one that I hear.

... but it definitely may be the most interesting! lol

deleted_user 08/26/2007

I am understandably curious as to how physically and mentally it was accomplished. I gess this would truly be acase of first served, first CUM!

deleted_user 08/27/2007

If a blow job lasts for 36 hours, then I say that you're doing something VERY wrong.

My husband has to stop me after just a few minutes, if we want to go on to do other things... he loves them waaaaay too much to last 10 minutes, let alone 36 hours.

deleted_user 08/27/2007

You has the mad skillz Lisa! Can you give my wife some lessons? ;) lol

deleted_user 08/27/2007

Just reading about your blow jobs is wild enough for me.

deleted_user 08/27/2007

Yeah. Thinking about it I fully agree with Irish. It would become very painful unless you really had some sought of lub. And yes, my penis does get sore if I am horny for hours on end. So I don't really understand either. Can you tell us more Charity? I want to say can you show us, but I'd better not.

Charity6262 08/28/2007

Well first of all sorry my computer has been down for a few days. It was very painful. My jaw, head, neck, mouth, back, and sholders killed me for like 4 days. I didn't use any lube, and I did it for so long it rubbed the skin off my lips. He was usually high on something that is why he could last so long without cumming. I didn't stop for anything because he wouldn't let me if he liked what I was doing (which was 99% of the time) he would hold me down so I couldn't move. He always liked what I did. Yes it hurt me but he liked it and so did I for the first 15 - 20 minutes.

deleted_user 08/28/2007

What a sick bastard. That was SO wrong of him to do to you.

deleted_user 08/28/2007

(and I'm sorry that I didn't understand.)

Charity6262 08/28/2007

Its cool most people haven't been in the situation that I was in with my soon to be ex husband.

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